Adoption

Update!

DD and I are doing great.  Our 7 days was up as of midnight (last night) so unless BM sent a certified letter that is still in transit, saying she changed her mind, DD is ours!

I will say, I am a bit stressed right now, because the Medicaid office just called us.  They wanted to make sure DD was insured because they said BM opted out.  I let them know DD is insured under our private insurance, but then asked what she meant about BM opting out.  She said BM does in fact qualify, but said she didn't want it!  She said there was a bill that will have to be paid (for BM's expenses), but she couldn't tell me how much it was for.  Before DD was born, BM was unsure if she qualified and we told her we'd pay her medical bills if she did not.  But now, if she qualifies, we are not paying those bills.  I cannot for the life of me imagine why she would opt out!  I am really frustrated and hope BM gets back to me soon, because again, we will not pay these pills knowing she qualifies for Medicaid.  That's $10-20,000 that can go towards so many things for DD!

 

Married Since 09/2006, TTC Since 09/2010 
DX: Unexplained infertility, DH normal 
3 Femara cycles - Oct, Nov, Dec 2011, all BFNs 
IVF #1, ER 2/15 (5R, 4M, 4F), ET 2/18, Beta 2/29 = BFN :( 
Follistim + IUI on 6/25 = BFN 
Home Study Finalized 8/14/12! Profile Active - 8/17/12! 
Officially Matched 8/29/12, Our perfect angel born 9/25/12! 
Biggest surprise ever, unexpected BFP on 4/12/13! 

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Re: Update!

  • What did you name her? 

    I really hope that your DD's birthmom gets back to you soon! 

    Good luck and congrats!! 

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    Married Since 09/2006, TTC Since 09/2010 
    DX: Unexplained infertility, DH normal 
    3 Femara cycles - Oct, Nov, Dec 2011, all BFNs 
    IVF #1, ER 2/15 (5R, 4M, 4F), ET 2/18, Beta 2/29 = BFN :( 
    Follistim + IUI on 6/25 = BFN 
    Home Study Finalized 8/14/12! Profile Active - 8/17/12! 
    Officially Matched 8/29/12, Our perfect angel born 9/25/12! 
    Biggest surprise ever, unexpected BFP on 4/12/13! 

     Our Angel through Adoption
     Lilypie Third Birthday tickers


    Our Little Miracle
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    Hailey Margaret (Margaret is DH's grandmother's name) Smile

    Cute! :) 

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  • Congrats, mama!!  Hope the medical expenses all work out soon.

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    Clomid + TI=BFN, IUIs 1-6= BFN
    Application for domestic adoption submitted 4/18/12, matched 8/12/12, DD born 10/31/12


     

  • Congrats..L O V E the name..what a beautiful blessing with our without $20,000 in bills..she is a blessing..
    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
  • Awww, I love that name, so sweet!!


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  • I'm glad to hear things are going well!

    I hope you get the insurance situation worked out soon.  Don't stress too much over it right now.  Enjoy your sweet babe!

  • Beautiful name!  So excited for you.

     I hope that the insurance gets worked out.  I would feel the same as you - no way would I pay if she just opted out of something that would have covered the costs!

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    4/11 Started adoption process for 2 siblings through DCF. 10/12 Found out we are licensed! 12/14 Brought 3 week old identical twin girls home from the hospital.  Could be at least until Summer 1015 til we know if they are forever ours
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