Pregnant after a Loss

Intro... My story

This one time at band camp... on page one I meet the love of my life. We have been together for ten years. Been married for almost 3 years. DH is in the Army and I am working on my master in marriage and family counseling. We had two miscarriages at 9 weeks, one in 2005 and the other in 2009 (honeymoon baby).

Due to DH being deployed to Iraq and me finishing up my BA we put off TTC until this last December. Got my 3# BFP on 1/15/2012 EDD was 9/20/2012. On May 11th at 21weeks DH and I went in for the big u/s to find out girl or boy, to find that our little boy had past away. Matthew Asher T. was born sleeping on May 16th at 9:20am and only weighed 10.3ounces.

We are waited until his EDD to TTC again. I got my 4#BFP on 9/30/2012!!! I am scared and excited all at the same time. Hope for my rainbow...

This story started at band camp on Sept. 6, 2002, when to people meet. Married on Nov. 14, 2009.

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  • I'm sorry for all your losses. But so excited to hear your news!! Hopeful this is your take home baby!!
    1 current MC 2011, cautiously pregnant again EDD 4-10-13~STICK BABY
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    After 1 MC 2007, 2 CP, Cade Anthony is here:
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses but welcome to the board and congrats! Wishing you a H&H 9 months.
  • I am so sorry for your losses.  Welcome and congratulations!
    TTC #1 since April 2010
    BFP 4/18/12, M/C 4/27/12 at 6w6d
    BFP 7/1/12 - Counting down to our little girl, EDD 3/8/13
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  • I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
    BFP#1 2/18/2011, EDD 10/18/2011, natural m/c 2/28/2011 @ 7 weeks
    BFP#2 5/28/2011, EDD 2/1/2012, chemical pg
    BFP#3 10/22/2011, EDD 6/30/2012, natural m/c 11/3/2011 @ 6 weeks
    BFP#4 4/16/2012, EDD 12/24/2012, Beta #1 23 @ 10dpo, Beta #2 68 @ 12dpo, Beta #3 370 @ 16dpo, Saw baby and heartbeat on 5/11/2012.

    It's a boy!
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  • So sorry about your losses! But congrats and welcome to PGAL!!
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    BFP #3: 01/28/12, EDD: 09/23/12, MMC (BO), D&C 2/16/12 at 6.5 wks
    BFP #4: 05/23/12, EDD: 01/31/12, Early MC at 5 wks

    RPL Workup: + LPD (7DPO Prog = 7.8, Endometrial Bx = out of phase)
    Elevated Alpha 2-glycoprotein IgA and antiphosphatidylserine IgM -->
    Hematologist said not to worry and no need for treatment!

    Dx: LPD
    Cycle #1(08/2012): Clomid 50 mg CD3-7, Ovidrel CD13 + Progesterone = It worked!
    BFP #5 on 09/10/12 (11 DPO). HCG #1 @ 14DPO = 131.6 HCG #2 @ 16DPO = 509
    EDD: 05/23/2013 Lilypie Pregnancy tickers

  • I am so sorry for all that you have been through!

    Congrats on your BFP and I am sending a truckload of sticky dust your way!

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  {{hug}} Congratulations on your pregnancy, and welcome!! :). This is a great community full of strong, supportive women who can relate to the issue of pregnancy after loss like no one else can.  
    Miscarriage in January 2012 at 8 weeks
    Subsequently diagnosed with low P4, LOR. MH DX low motility, varicocele 
    BFP in July 2012 (Gonal-f + trigger + IUI#2 (B2B) + prometrium)
    Lost Baby A prior to 7 weeks; large SCH; Baby B (Bug) was born in March 2013
    BFP June 2014; EDD February 19, 2015
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  I have a very similar story to yours, as we found out that we lost our son at our a/s as well.  Wishing you a H&H 9 months (and may it be as boring as possible).

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     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • I am so sorry for your heartbreaking losses but congratulations on your BFP!! Welcome to the board!! 
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    EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves

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  • I am so sorry for your losses. Congratulations on this bfp and welcome!


      Our Angel Patricia born sleeping 3/30/12 at 31 weeks
    Our Fighter Anna born early 1/8/13 at 26 weeks
    Hoping to bring home #3 due 9/9/15
  • Welcome & congrats!! Wishing you a happy, healthy pregnancy.

    BFP #2: 08/23/12; EDD: 05/04/13 ~Please stick little one!!! DS born 05/09/13 at 40w5d

    BFP #1: 05/05/12; EDD: 01/01/13; m/c: 05/21/12 ~Forever in our hearts~ 

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  • I am so sorry for your losses, especially little Matthew...  But congratulations!!!!!  Lots of sticky vibes for you, and wishing you a very H&H 9 months!!!
    Married: 6/16/12
    CP: 01/2011 |  MMC: 01/2012  |  MMC: 10/2012  |  DS: 11/2013  |  MMC: 11/2014  |  DD: 01/2016
    BFP: 06/2018 - EDD: 02/09/2019
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