New Here...

jma82012

Hello All! So, I am new here.. I have been sifting through some of the info on the website but haven't actually posted. Me and hubby are in month/cycle number 3 for TTC and I don't exactly have anyone in 'real life' that is going through this as most of my friends are single and still OK with it. It wasn't until this last batch of BFNs that it started to hurt a bit. I am still trying to stay POSITIVE and understand that this doesn't just happen overnight... all the stars must align, but I want a bundle of baby joy so BADLY and so does hubby, we have been together for almost 3 years and just got married last May... we were not trying until after summer of 2012 because that was our last hurrah, but now we are both so mentally ready!

What do you all do to stay positive when those negatives keep coming every month? I know I am healthy.. doctor has said so and cycle is SPOT on 30 days to the hour, every month.. hubby is healthy too.. I just got to keep trying I suppose!

Thanks for your input, it helps to have some support..My single lady friends are getting sick of hearing about my TTC journey I think! Boring stuff to them 

jma82012

Thanks for the response! I have done fertility friend.. I find it a bit overwhelming at first. I find it hard to balance the "just let it happen naturally" stance and the "chart your every movement" stance, I think I am going to invest in a thermometer this month though, can't hurt right? I just don't want to take the fun and magic out of TTC :P