H and I smoke a small bowl basically every night.
We have a child (but smoke outside).
Wine debilitates me more than smoking does, it only makes us a little sillier and laid back. I still have complete control over myself. We've both been doing this for years and it's nothing more than drinking a beer would be to us. We don't always smoke, and we often go weeks at a time without getting more, so it's not like we're addicted. We're both well paid and respected professionals and nobody would ever suspect.
We live in an area where it's decriminalized but if we got caught we'd pay a fine.
Re: Any other pot smokers?
Not really. I know the person that grows the stuff that we smoke, so I know there aren't crazy pesticides. Also, it's usually two tokes and we're done, so I'm probably at more risk when walking down the sidewalk behind a cigarette smoker (which I hate and am super judgey about, lol).
The benefits far exceed the risks for me at this point.
Same. H has never smoked pot either. We have no interest. We prefer delicious beer.
Ive tried it and it does absolutely nothing for me, which I found massively disappointing! I much prefer a slight buzz off wine.
DH occasionally smokes with BILs. I couldnt care less.