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Any tips for staying positive

74dragonfly74dragonfly member
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For some reason I am always super upbeat around ovulation but when 2ww hits I start to feel negative. Even if I were to get pregnant I am terrified of a loss.I think this is why I don't test early.I need to chant it is in God's hands.




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Re: Any tips for staying positive

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    kofmkgkofmkg member

    No advice, just hugs!  I only get negative at the end/beginning of a cycle, which is why I don't test early, too.  It's all in God's hands, but prayers help, too!

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    jeannaqueenajeannaqueena member
    I am right there with you...I was on a serious high right before trigger and the hope has slowly seeped out of my bones and I am pretty much trying to gear up for next month and what we should do.  I know its not over yet, but this is how I feel.
    TTC#1: 14 months on our own (did HSG, b/w, SA);
    BFP on Cycle 14--TWINS! Identical twin boys stillborn at 19wks(1/9/10)
    3 break cycles; took clomid 50mg, BFP #2 Beta #1 35, Beta #2 338!!! Owen was born 2/11/11! 
    TTC#2: 4 cycles on clomid: BFNs
    BFP #3: Cycle #5 100mg clomid; beta #1 21; beta #2 6=CP 
    Cycle #6 break cycle TTC no meds=BFN
    Cycle #7: 150 clomid+ovidril+IUI=BFN (switched to RE)
    Cycle #8: follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #9 Forced break due to cyst
    Cycle #10 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #11 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle#12 Forced break due to cyst, went on BCP; did repeat HSG, Saline U/S
    Cycle #13 IVF: Follistim/Menapur ER 11-30 11 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized and 3dt on 12-3; BFN
    Cycle #14: IVF#2 lupron/follistim/menopur ER 1-22, 19 eggs, 14 fertilized, 5dt on 1-27, BFP!! beta 1: 63, beta 2: 119; EDD 10-15-13; 1 frozen embie
    Miracle Surprise BFP, EDD 10-1-15; saw HB great Betas, 11weeks lost baby MC at home
    Moved forward with FET transfered solo frostie on 6-4-15, beta 1: 315, beta 2: 738, u/s showed one baby on track EDD 2-21-16
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    ammareammare
    I don't have any tips. Just wanted to say I know how you feel. I do the same thing.  MH is always super positive. I should ask him how he does it.
    TTC#2 since December 2010. HSG and bloodwork all good. SA results not so good. Unmedicated IUI#1 6/19/2012 - BFN
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    ceebeeteeceebeetee member
    its hard staying positive!  i also am positive around ovulation but get negative as it gets close to AF, mostly to protect myself against getting hopes crushed.  i think i just always know deep down that it didn't work.  i just try to focus focus focus on other things and stay busy.  i also really try to force myself to not keep track of dates, how maybe dpo i am, etc.  
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    BFP 1/21/13, blighted ovum m/c 2/12/13
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    Kimmy683Kimmy683 member
    Only advice is what you said! It's in God's hands and stay positive until you for sure know otherwise.  What DPO are you?  Prayers for you!!
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    74dragonfly74dragonfly member
    Thanks ladies!




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    JilliansMomaJilliansMoma member

    I'm this way too.  The one good thing for me, is that it changes daily, so I can be positive one day and Debbie downer the next. There's enough positive days mixed in there!  I try to focus on my husband and DD #1 & 2 and that helps me too.  Plus I come here and usually someone always makes me smile.  I say use what resources you have to get you through the 2 WW hell! 

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    Lauren79Lauren79 member
    I am the same exact way.  It is so stressful.  No advice, just sending you lots of hugs!

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    BFP 09.22.12 EDD 05.31.13 natural m/c 10.07.12
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    cislebride07cislebride07

    imagejeannaqueena:
    I am right there with you...I was on a serious high right before trigger and the hope has slowly seeped out of my bones and I am pretty much trying to gear up for next month and what we should do.  I know its not over yet, but this is how I feel.

     

    I feel exactly the same way.  I am so negative that I get psyched up for the next cycle.  what is wrong with me?

    Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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