Pregnant after 35

1st U/S! - Update - not so good

Wow - what a busy day around here!

Just got back from our first U/S which was great!  Based on my LMP I thought I was 6 weeks, but the RE says I'm earlier - at 5 weeks 3 days.  We did see a (one!) yoke sack and it was in the right place - we got a take home picture which my DH couldn't stop staring at :)

Next U/S is a week from Thursday -- SOOOO far away from now!  I am just feeling so great and secure and happy happy happy!

Update: well, just got bad news.  When I was in for my u/s I had another Beta and the PA just called - I'm at 1200 - the last Beta was on 9/17 at 346 so by now she said I should be at 2700.   She said it's not great - we have a 50/50 but most don't make it.  I asked if progesterone supplements would help but she said no. Just letting this sink in - trying to keep it together and get a hold of DH. I don't know how I can make it until next Thursday's appointment

Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!

Re: 1st U/S! - Update - not so good

  • Oh yay!  So happy you had a great appointment!  I hope you feel a bit more relieved since you were worried b/c your betas were lower than mine, now you know why since you're 5w3d and not 6w0d!  What an awesome day today :)

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

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  • Lots of good news today! Glad you had a great appt!
    nate and teddy
    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!
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  • Welcome to the collectively Happy U/S day! :) hopefully the next one will be even better!
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  • Congratulations!!!
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  • Congrats!

    Melissa

     

    Me - 38 DH - 38 DD - 2 pregnancy
  • Awesome news....  Best wishes for a H&H LO...

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  • What great news! Best Monday ever! Big Smile

    ETA: Noooooo! I don't know what to say. I pray that you are in that 50% that make it. Sending tons of hope and positive vibes your way.

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    Over-40 parents...what we lack in vigor, we make up for with cunning.
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    Update: well, just got bad news.  When I was in for my u/s I had another Beta and the PA just called - I'm at 1200 - the last Beta was on 9/17 at 346 so by now she said I should be at 2700.   She said it's not great - we have a 50/50 but most don't make it.  I asked if progesterone supplements would help but she said no. Just letting this sink in - trying to keep it together and get a hold of DH. I don't know how I can make it until next Thursday's appointment

    Oh no, Lenox! How horrible for the PA to rip the rug right out from under you like that! I am sending you lots of good juju. I would take the progesterone supps anyhow (my RE said that unless my OB changes the plan, I'm supposed to take my progesterone supps through 6 weeks and then start tapering them slowly down until I'm done by 8 weeks)... but that's just me.

    ((hugs)) ((good juju))

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                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • Thank you all so much - your words mean a lot.  
    Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!
  • Oh no!  I was not expecting to see this.  I will keep you in my T's and P's that you will be in the 50% that makes it through.  So sorry you have to go through this.

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • I am so sorry for that phone call =(  I will pray that you are in the 50%.  Lots of hugs!!  I know how terrible the waiting is.
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  • Re: your update ---

    Don't lose hope! Please continue to stay positive and take very good care of yourself. Rest whenever you can and stay well nourished. My betas were very low and very slow to double, but as you can see, my little bean has flourished since then. I hope the very same for you! 

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    Beat stage 4 Hodgkins Lymphoma May 2011, YEAH!!!

    BFP 3/30/12, with fingers and toes all crossed.

    AMA (37) + GD = HR, grr.

    EDD 12.12.12

  • As pp stated, don't let go of hope! Anything can happen at this stage, my thoughts are with you..
    nate and teddy
    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!
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  • Just wanted to add that I found this chart comforting when I was in beta hell. Basically, what I got out of it is, beta ranges are all over the place and vary from individual to individual and pregnancy to pregnancy. I hope this helps a little!

    https://www.betabase.info/showBasicChart.php?type=Single

    One more thing: my little bean was a late implanter, so we didn't see much on our first U/S, wither.

    Pregnancy Ticker

    BabyFruit Ticker

    Beat stage 4 Hodgkins Lymphoma May 2011, YEAH!!!

    BFP 3/30/12, with fingers and toes all crossed.

    AMA (37) + GD = HR, grr.

    EDD 12.12.12

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