TTC and frustrated

susieandmarty

Working on number two and it seems like everyone around me is pregnant. Not only that they are getting pregnant easily or by accident. It's getting to me and ff is really screwing with me this cycle. Anyone else working on 2 and having a bit of a tough time

amypogg6

I'm in the same boat as you. I cry to DH every month when I get AF. Getting pregnant with DD was so easy, and I thought it would be like that again. Good luck. I'll be praying for you in my prayers to conceive.

susieandmarty

I hope you get yours soon. Seriously it is almost nice to hear that someone trying for 2 is in my boat but i am sorry you are as frustrated as me We are coming up on the same time it took to conceive dd and I am just as frustrated as I was then.

nic5606

I'm sorry your frustrated. It is frustrating when you are doing opks, temping, etc and still taking what seems like forever to get pregnant.  I am not trying yet, but not looking forward to all that again.

It took us 7 months to get pregnant with B. I am hoping when we decide to try, it does not take that long again. I know 7 months is nothing compared to how long it takes some women to get pregnant, but it still seems like forever.

 I did buy OPK's yesterday in preparation. Ahhhhh. The thought of having 2 kids still scares the sh!t out of me.

Good luck for a BFP soon!!!

Baby4OT

We're going for #4, not #2, but still it is frustrating at times. It took a year to conceive DD1 and almost a year to conceive DD2. The second time around was almost more frustrating than the first because I knew a lot of people who took a long time to get pg the first time, but then conceived right away or by accident for their second. I sort of had in my head that maybe we'd conceive #2 quickly too. Nope. We did conceive #3 on our first cycle trying, which TOTALLY shocked me. It was kind of amazing really - to not have all that worry and concern about IF and so on. Now for #4 we're on our 3rd cycle, so not frustrated yet, but still in the back of my mind I'm wondering if this is going to be another whole year of trying.

Hallil

We are not TTC yet, but this is always on my mind. With Brynn it took 3 cycles and I remember being totally consumed with temping, charting, everything. I worry about all that again when it is time...

gmc222

I'm right there with ya. It took us a year to conceive DD (and eventually needing clomid + IUI) so I'm nervous this will take as long or longer. It wasn't bothering me so much until I saw a good friend this weekend and she confirmed she's pg with #2 after only literally one try, and this was after her first was conceived after 3 failed IUI's and 2 IVF cycles. SO happy for her, but worried I'm already behind the 8 ball with a couple failed cycles.

SarahKate31

TTC is always hard when there are a lot of people around you getting BFP's left and right - especially quick or unplanned ones. And right now I know a lot of people with kids DS's age and they all seem to be getting pregnant with #2!

It took us a year and 2 m/c's before we got KU with DS. Right now we're on cycle 4 of trying for #2 and all we have so far is another m/c. I try to keep it in perspective - it's only been 4 months. I just hoped we'd have an easier time this time around!

waterfall11

Joining the frustrated group now. Got pregnant second cycle but lost baby at almost 15 weeks.