Rough Day

donmitch79

Having a rough day and my husband is traveling with work ...ugh.  2 years ago today we lost our pregnancy in the 2nd trimester and I found out I could not carry a pregnancy again.  A year ago today one of my best friends had a baby, who is my godchild, and today another one of my closest friends had a baby.  September 17 is such a sad day for me and now 2 of my best friends share the day with the births of their children.  As time goes by, this day doesn't get any easier. It's such a weird situation because it is a day of grief for me while a day of such happiness and celebration for 2 of my best friends...:(

  

greenteabee

I'm so sorry. I don't know what you're going through, but if you ever need somebody to talk to feel free to send me a message. ((hug)) 

House of Lovelock

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, and it's terrible that your husband is out of town,I know that makes everything worse on top of the already emotional time.  I will be praying for you! 

Foster1Mom

You are entitled to a rough day. That has to be very difficult. It is so hard when a day is nothing but painful for us and joy for others. You are in my T's & P's.

elissaann26

Foster1Mom:

You are entitled to a rough day. That has to be very difficult. It is so hard when a day is nothing but painful for us and joy for others. You are in my T's & P's.

This exactly!  Take some time to grieve, whenever you need it.  And feel free to vent here! 

CaptainSerious

I'm sorry.  That has to be difficult.  Be good and pamper yourself today in all the ways you can.

ellekae

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. The 17th was a hard day for my family too... my niece was stillborn at 26 weeks a year ago yesterday.

The anniversaries of days like this are SO hard, especially when you are also trying to be happy for other people. My college roommate died in a car accident on Feb 16, so Valentine's Day always makes me sad now. All the flowers and hearts and candy just make me remember everything all over again, and that was 8 years ago. I can imagine that the birthdays of your friends' children will always be difficult for you.

I am so sorry you have to go through this.

I am praying for you!

DaisyZH

I'm so sorry for your loss, anniversary dates are always so difficult and painful.  It's hard to celebrate with your loved ones on their happy events when you are mourning your child.  (( Hugs )) Take care of yourself first and foremost, your friends should understand if you have a tough day on this day and on this date in the future.  Prayers for you, I'm so sorry that you are going through this.

donmitch79

Thank you everyone. Today was a much better day! My students were absolutely adorable today and a manicure and pedicure after school with a friend coupled with a glass of wine, made for a perfect day.  )