MIL is a meth addict

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Well it's finally out, and we now know what she's been doing. No hiding it and dancing around it now.

After H had the conversation with her about his son potentially moving down there, she got upset, took a hit, got in her car and got into a bad accident.

She's back in ICU again but yesterday she was doing okay enough to have a conversation with her doctor and her sister's pastor. She flat out lied to the doctor when he confronted her and told her her blood tests say Meth.  But when her sister brought her pastor in, he got her to confess.

So now we know. And I have everything I need to keep her away from DD legally.

It's all unraveling.

I feel bad for H. He's pretty upset, but he's also said he will not allow him mother to see DD until she gets help. And she's so badly addicted, she may never get the proper help. SHe is in so much denial.

I'm done. Like everythign else, I'm glad it will be behind me soon and I have what I need to protect my daughter.

Kaeldrasmommy

Nasty, nasty stuff. I'll be glad for you when you get everything squared away, everything about this sounds miserable. I'm glad that your H is at least in agreement about keeping your DD away.

Nineoceans

I'm really sorry to hear that but im sure it brings a level of peace. There's drug addiction in our family and when we could realize the anger and horrible treatment was coming from drugs not true feelings it did feel a bit better to me at least not dh, but that's his prerogative.

I hope she gets the help she needs

Holly_1007

holy smokes! glad DH is on board with keeping DD away from her. hopefully this means SS will not be moving down there either? not that it matters either way, just relieved he won't have as much exposure to that stuff. what ever happened with all his court dates?

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You would think wendilea, wouldn't you? Maybe I should look up at the sky and in the bushes to see if there are Truman like cameras hidden.  If you were to summarize why I am leaving my husband, that would be the perfect way to say it.

I'm trying to compose a "get your sh*t straight or never see your GD again" letter but it's realy hard without getting really angry.

Last night I talked to her sister for two hours.  She agrees with me 100% and is going to cut her off too. I know however that will be very hard for her. She's been the good girl in the family who gets used and I am sure they will make it very hard for her, but I hope she sticks to her guns. She will become DD's surrogate GM, and I told her I would be very happy to keep in contact with her. She adores DD and wants a relationship with her. I told her that I needed to be able to show DD that there are good people on her daddy's side that love her and do have her best interest at heart. Unfortunately, she's one of only two people.

Tonite MIL left a message on H's phone. Obviously she's on pain killers but she tells H she's been in an accident, and then the very next sentence was:  "NO drugs involved."

Whatever. I'm done with you lady.

 

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Holly - he served his 45 days and is now done. He's got a new girlfriend I guess, moved in with her and takes care of her kid while she works. He essentially found another sucker to manipulate and take care of him. I give it a few months before she kicks his ass out. Oh silly me....by the I won't have to hear about it.

Hee! Hee!  Lucky me!