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Rough Conversations.

I really don't like rough conversations, especially when they aren't in person. This weekend I've had two different rough conversations. One where I told the Amom that she needs to respect my space, and one with the babies' biological dad over skype where I told him that I picked a couple and other stuff. I miss him so much. It was really hard not to break down and cry during our call.

I don't really know what the point of this was... I guess I'm just having a rough Monday. 

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Re: Rough Conversations.

  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry you are having a rough day.  I remember your post about the PAP needing to give you some space. Did she seem to get it?

     

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  • I'm sorry Sad  I'm glad you're sticking up for yourself though.  (( Hugs )) I'm sorry you're having a rough Monday.


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  • Major ((hugs)) to you. 

    TTC September 2010 thru October 2011
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    Met our 2 year old son in Russia July 2012!
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    Back to RE Summer 2013. TTC journey continues: 

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  • I am sorry that you had a rough weekend but it sounds like it was for the better. How did Amom do with your conversation? I really hope this helps improve your relationship.
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    After 6 years of failed cycles, we were blessed with our little man through adoption. 
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  • Hope the rest of the week gets better <<hugs>>Smile
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  • I am so sorry. Both of those conversations would be super tough. I think skyping would be awful about such a raw topic. No where to hide (you know what I mean?..On the phone, the tears can fall and you only have to keep your voice steady.)..

    I am so sorry and hope that both parties understand your point of view!

    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
  • So sorry you have to go through this! It must be so hard. I'm hoping that the PAPs and your baby's father can come to terms with your decisions smoothly and quickly so you can feel some peace about everything. Praying for you!

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