need help with my mourning husband

bewilderingstar

Hey ladies,

I had a miscarriage at the beginning of last week. We found out for sure through 2 beta tests that I indeed miscarried. MH and I got those results on Friday. Since then he has been acting weird (mostly in a goofy way). This weekend he drank a lot more than usual. He was acting out on Saturday though I nipped that in the bud because I definitely wasn't going to be brunt of his fury. But last night into today, his anxiety is getting the best of him. It's manifesting in his stomach and he is having trouble working today. He won't really talk about the miscarriage though I know he's mourning. How can I help him? I've been trying to be light and fluffy. He almost cried Friday night when he first got home but he walked away from me. He didn't want to talk about it when he returned. I just want him to be at peace with it. I know it's still new, it's only been 6days since I lost the nugget. Do you ladies have any tips on how to help him?

 

Thanks in advance.

Petunia844

I'm so sorry for your loss, you may get some better answers on the miscarriage/pregnancy loss board as this board is primarily women with later losses/child loss.  I hope you and your husband are able to work through this together.

bewilderingstar

I'm really sorry. I didn't know there was a board for early loss... I'll definitely post on there. Thank you.