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Anyone paranoid about getting pregnant again?

gwennecgwennec member
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DD2 was an unexpected surprise. I was still nursing DD1 and on the pill and we weren't trying. Now I am paranoid about getting pregnant again. I don't know if I want 3 and am definitely not ready considering I have a toddler and a 4 month old already.

I am still making DH were condoms and I am on the pill. I just don't want to risk it. Will my fears ever go away?

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  • smerkasmerka member
    DH had a vasectomy and I'm still paranoid.  I don't think my paranoia will go away until I hit menopause.
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  • sweetpea2003sweetpea2003 member

    I was.  DD was an IVF baby and then I got pregnant with DS when she was 7 months old (not trying, though we weren't using BC).  After I had DS I had a Mirena inserted at my 6 week post pardum visit because I was paranoid.  My husband deployed when my DS was 6 months old and we knew that was coming up.  I couldn't risk being pregnant with a newborn and a toddler.

    If you are worried, get an IUD.  You can still nurse and it is more effective than the mini pill.

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    No more TTC for us. We are done, and at peace, as a family of 4.

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  • morgs8384morgs8384 member

    Not as paranoid as DH is!

    Obviously, we don't want a third just yet... 

    I am nursing, and plan on getting on the mini pill at my 6 week PP appointment. I'll have DH use condoms for a month or so once that happens, just to be sure the pill is working. I am scared to get pregnant again so quickly, but I am also scared of it being hard to get pregnant again too. 

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  • ashf4iashf4i

    ME! *raises hand* lol

    I am totally paranoid about it - not sure if we will have a 3rd, but definitely not ready right now.  We were blessed to have such an easy time conceiving, weren't "trying" either time but weren't trying not to either.

    I have been on the mini pill since 6wk pp appt, and made DH wear a condom for the first month I was on it.  But yes, I admit it - still paranoid. haha 

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  • cfitz16cfitz16 member
    I'm not at all, but not sure why.  Timing would not be great right this moment, but I would love more.  I'm on the mini pill and still breast feeding.
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  • LollyBug18LollyBug18 member
    I am and baby isn't even hear yet. We definitely want more but this PG has kicked my butt and I just can't see myself doing it again with ANOTHER toddler.
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  • bellelambbellelamb member
    Yup, we haven't had sex since I had the esure procedure done and won't until I go and see that there is no way for me to get pregnant again.
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