I have been bickering with DH so much lately. I'm just so stressed out and taking it out on him. DS is a terrible sleeper and I have been sleep deprived for months. Lately DH can't even soothe him back to sleep much of the time so all the night wakings pretty much fall on me. I spend the majority of the night in the nursery recliner instead of my bed. I miss my bed and resent DH for getting to spend so many more hours in it than me. And yet he's still cranky!
DS has been clingy with me during the day too. And DH gets frustrated so quickly, I feel like I can't leave DS with him for any length of time. He doesn't read his sleepy cues well and keeps him up too long. Then I have to deal with an overtired baby.
I could go on and on but this is already long. I just feel like I can't count on DH for help, but also like maybe I'm not giving him much of a chance. I guess this was mostly a vent, but if you have any advice I'd love to hear it.