Really need to Vent

butterfly2119

Wow I really didn't think I would be posting again so soon. But I'm absolutely angry right now. I lost my daughter when she was 4months old this past January. Today would have been her first birthday. I really don't know how to feel I'm just kind of trudging through today and I think I was doing pretty well. Until I got home from work and logged on to facebook. My cousin posted this beautiful little birthday dedication to my daughter and this a$$ hole posts right under it his daughters birthday information for the party he's having for her. Who does that? I really don't feel like being angry is over reacting but I know if I blow up on facebook no one really knows how I feel and can relate to my angryness (if that's even a word) Thanks for listing

butterfly2119

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weddedwife

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard today must be. Thinking of you and your sweet baby!

Can you talk to or send a message to your cousin asking him/her to delete the guy's comment? That would piss me off too, a lot. Or maybe your cousin will delete it on his/her own...?

butterfly2119

I posted under his comment how rude that was of him. Hopefully I'll get an apology. My cousin hasn't logged back on but I did send her a message if she could just delete the whole thing. The damage has already been done. I know her intentions were good. I just don't know how some of these people think.

a&aw12707

What a douche. Sometimes people just don't think. I am so sorry and huge hugs for you today.

pottermommy

I am so sorry.  I truly am.  People can be ridiculously insensitive.    Happy Birthday to your Angel, I am sorry you are going through this.  I want to crawl away and dissapear on every important day.  But, my DH told me something this year and it makes sense. 

Kamryn's birthday is February 8th, her angelversary is Sept 10th (it will be 4 years).  On her bday he said to me.

"Lyndsey, today 5 years ago, you gave birth to the most amazing person to ever enter our worlds.  Today is the day we fell in love with the most amazing child ever, the one that will remain perfect and pure and we will always love her.  No matter what we would not wish that she had not bee born right? (right I answered) So today we will celebrate her birth because today was the happiest day of our lives. On her angelversay we will grieve and allow all the sorrow to take hold but today we will celebrate everything amazing that she brought to our lives."

I know it is hard.  I know it hurts.  I know, I do, I promise.  Today one year ago your precious little girl was born and brought so much love into your life, and no matter what some douchecanoue on FB says he can't take that away.

Today is your and your daughter's day.  Tonight remember your love and your amazing journey with your little girl.  No one knows how amazing she was in your life better than you.  Celebrate it despite the pain.  Huge hugs mama.  And lots of love.

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butterfly2119

Thank you all, I really appreciate it.

lmielocl1

I am so sorry!! I am sorry that the person on FB was very insensitive. I am thinking of you and your daughter! (((Hugs)))

Bayberry12

I'm sorry you had to deal with that.  Some people are so clueless and don't understand simple technology like FB.  That post was for your sweet daughter and he turned it into a party invitation... such an insensitive person. 

Aside from that, I hope you where able to have some peace and maybe some joy thinking of your baby on her birthday, and remembering the day she came into your life.  My heart really goes out to you with everything you have been through.