Adoption

Just a vent

We need to do an international adoption course before we can even start anything.  Unfortunately the closest course that is offered is 5+ hours away (luckily they only do Saturday courses) and it's only offered once a month - alternating cities.  One city is 5 hours away, the other is 8.  We have been busy with pre-booked stuff every Saturday the course was offered until November and now we just had to book that Saturday up too.  I'm just a little bit frusterated that this course just keeps getting pushed further & further back.

Daughter #1 - February 12, 2010 

natural m/c March 11, 2011 at 8 1/2 weeks 

Daughter #2 - January 11, 2012 

Ectopic pregnancy discovered November 6, 2012 at 6 weeks

Daughter #3 - January 19, 2014

Started our exploration into the world of international adoption June 2012.  We have no idea what this is going to look like but we are excited to find out!

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Re: Just a vent

  • Why do you need to do a course? That sounds complicated... and IA is complicated enough!
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  • It's required by our province.

    Daughter #1 - February 12, 2010 

    natural m/c March 11, 2011 at 8 1/2 weeks 

    Daughter #2 - January 11, 2012 

    Ectopic pregnancy discovered November 6, 2012 at 6 weeks

    Daughter #3 - January 19, 2014

    Started our exploration into the world of international adoption June 2012.  We have no idea what this is going to look like but we are excited to find out!

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  • Will they accept or offer an online course?  We did some online courses that were needed for our home study.
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    Moved on to  gestational surrogacy with a family friend who is our angel and due 7/23/15


  • We had to take classes for DI to get placed through our agency. The class being held in our area was when we were going to FL so we had to drive 5 hours or wait 10 more months so I get it......Very frustrating!
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  • imageIRR:
    Will they accept or offer an online course?  We did some online courses that were needed for our home study.

    I'd definitely look into this before committing to drive such a long distance! 

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    BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
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    imageIRR:
    Will they accept or offer an online course?  We did some online courses that were needed for our home study.

    I'd definitely look into this before committing to drive such a long distance! 

    Nope no online course.  There are only 3 agencies in my province and they are all located in those two cities so regardless we have to take the course there.  The agency we are going with at least has a home study rep here so when we go to do our home study, it's local.  The distance however is normal.  We do that trip (5 hours) probably 4 or 5 times a year at least just because we want to so the trip itself isn't the problem, it's the fact that we have to push it back yet again.

    Daughter #1 - February 12, 2010 

    natural m/c March 11, 2011 at 8 1/2 weeks 

    Daughter #2 - January 11, 2012 

    Ectopic pregnancy discovered November 6, 2012 at 6 weeks

    Daughter #3 - January 19, 2014

    Started our exploration into the world of international adoption June 2012.  We have no idea what this is going to look like but we are excited to find out!

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  • That's a huge bummer!  I'm sorry.  I hope November comes quickly for you and you can keep moving forward.  We were ready to start our homestudy a couple months before we could get our social worker to meet us, so I can relate!

    TTC September 2010 thru October 2011
    SA February 2011: Normal
    RE App. October 2011 - Recc. Clomid and IUI

    Taking a break from TTC to pursue adoption

    Met our 2 year old son in Russia July 2012!
    Court trip October 2012
    Home November 24 2012!

    Back to RE Summer 2013. TTC journey continues: 

    Dx DOR, endometriosis, low sperm count 
    Clomid + IUI#1, #2 = BFN / IUI #3 = ???

    Laparoscopy scheduled December 2013

    Adding a Burden
  • I'm so sorry. We recently had to complete (more) training for our IA and part of it had to be face to face as part of a new requirement. It's annoying for sure!
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