Neither mine nor my DH's families are remotely close to where we live. The closest relatives are in Missouri and we are in Michigan.
Should we invite out of town family members to the baby shower knowing that they can't make it?
Part of me says yes because it is the polite/proper thing to do but another part of me says no that it insinuates an expectation for gifts knowing that they can't attend.
What sayeth the board?
Re: Would you invite guests to a shower that you know can't come?
This. They may be looking for a good excuse to come see you (not that they SHOULD need one) or other family out there and want to lump it all into one trip. Plus, the way I see it - it's not worth the cost of a stamp to possibly really hurt someone's feelings...
I actually ask MIL if she wanted me to invite DH's extended family knowing they wouldn't be able to come and she said no. I think she didn't want to appear gift grubby and said the family will be, and I quote, very generous when they receive the birth announcement.
On the same hand, I didn't invite DH's extended family who live in other states, etc to either wedding shower for the same reason. They wouldn't be able to attend.
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This. It's the polite thing to do. If you don't send an invite, it's kind of like not acknowledging them.
If you call, like I see someone suggesting, that's you inviting them to your party. You aren't supposed to be a part of invitations other than providing a guest list. Calling seems really tacky IMO. Your planners are in charge of all of that. Just put them on the guest list and let the folks in charge take care of it all. If they send their congratulations and love, YAY!
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I didn't have a bridal shower or a formal wedding with invitations so this is new territory for me with my in-laws.
I answered ya in the Baby Shower Board.
I'm scared of the baby shower board... it's really unforgiving on there lol.
Thanks for the answer. I was scared to post it over there too but figured the flames wouldn't be to hot since I hang out over here most of the time. LOL
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I would and I am inviting people who I know can't come.