Just curious! I've had it both ways... first time around it took us almost 4 years...unexplained infertility and ultimately got pregnant via IVF. This time around, we were shocked that it even happen to begin with-- and in the very first month trying!!! [Poll]
Re: How long did it take you to get pregnant? (Poll)
Zeke was conceived while I was on birth control, so there really isn't any way of me measuring "how long". In any case, we obviously weren't actively trying to get pregnant.
Our first BFP came about 10 months from when we first decided to TTC, and we tried continuously in those months. After our loss, we waited almost 4 months before TTC again, and it was just under 2 years before we got our second BFP but there were a few times that we chose to TTA for a bit because I needed a break.
I voted 1-2 years.
We started July 2010, right after we got married.
I got pg in 4 cycles ttc both times before (both ended in losses). This it was the very next cycle after a hysterosocopy to remove scar tissue from my first loss in 2010.
So it could be 1-2 years (total) or it could be 1 month for this one.
BFP #1- 11/7/10 ~EDD 7/20/11 ~M/C (bo) 12/6/10 @ 8wks ~Missing my Little Firework
BFP #2- 9/11/11 ~EDD 5/25/12 ~M/C (mmc10w)11/4/11 @ 11wks ~Missing my May Flower
BFP #3- 02/21/12 ~EDD 11/1/12 Audrey Lee Born 11/4/2012
BFP #4 ~EDD 6/20/14 stick baby stick!
This pg was a total shock. We weren't trying at all.
My 1st DD is another story. We went through 3 years of IF treatments and finally did IVF to conceive her. Since having her 7 years ago, we haven't even bothered with birth control.
We are so happy with this wonderful surprise after having such a hard time conceiving the first time!
DD1 and 2 the first month trying
then got pregnant with both of us using BC lost the baby
8 months to get pregnant with our 1 1/2 year old
got pregnant first try lost the baby
For this LO 4 months
I had to choose SS.
1st (loss) was on the first try in November, 2009.
2nd (loss) was on the first try in February, 2010.
3rd (loss) was after 3 months in October, 2010.
4th (loss) was after being with an RE for 2 months in April, 2011.
5th try was one failed IVF attempt in August, 2011.
This pregnancy, if you count the time we tried on our own it would be 3 months, then we went back to the RE and got pregnant on the first try.
So honestly, I wouldn't even know how to answer this question.