Hello ladies. I have been on this bored a few times but have been so busy its been very sparatic. So first of all hello! Second I need some mom to mom advice.
So this past Friday I went to a friends house for a party she was having. I at first didn't think that I would go because both of my children were cranky and tired and was DD's first week at preschool. I went anyway because I wanted to support this friend who also has a little girl 2yrs and a newborn. So I get there and DD1 and 2 start playing with her daughter and all is OK only the typical have sharing issues.
Five minutes into playing I hear the mom scream GET OFF MY DAUGHTER! (Seeing my daughter on top of my daughter) So the mom says that my daughter had her forearm on her daughters throat and was choking her(TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE) and So I apologized and asked my daughter what happened after she had spent some time in time out. She says she was trying to get a bear and the little girl pushed her and she fell on top of her.
So after apologizing profusely the little girl left with her dad and she seemed fine. The next day my husband gets a text saying we really need to talk about what happened the night before and that he was worried about my daughters unnatural anger. So they said we ultamitly don't want the girls to get together again because they cannot trust my daughter. So today the mom posts on Facebook that her daughter is coughing and having trouble swallowing. She is livid that my daughter tried to kill her daughter and shes mad that I'm not taking it seriously.
Sorry for the novel but I am so sick and stressed out over it. TIA
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A piece of me would want to reply 1) If this is even true, then get off the damn computer and take her to the doctor. OR 2) "I'm so sorry this happened. I appreciate your concern that my daughter has an anger problem. I haven't noted it, but will keep my eyes out and talk to her pediarician if it happens again. I would like to reciprocate the love and concern and invite you to hear my daughter's side, and then express my concern for your kid's lying problem. If your child is experimenting with aggression, as my daughter says happened, and then is lying about it, it is important to protect your newborn from similar lashouts."
BUT the right answer is to simply unfriend and block her so you aren't subjected to her anger and attacks. It's a bummer. I would have been upset and have yelled at kids on the playground who have shoved or grabbed my kids, but seriously the BS on FB shows that this about more than that. Toddlers do stupid stuff sometimes, but usually adults trump that in spades.
Nicely worded