Our second daughter died in utero at 16w. We found out she had died the day before our anatomy scan and didn't find out that she was a girl until a few weeks later. I knew that I wanted to name my baby but DH was reluctant. I won out and we named our second daughter Evie.
I love my daughter and I love her name but it feels so weird when other's speak it. It is actually a bit jarring to hear it. We only named her after death and I hadn't had a chance to really associate that name with the LO in my belly.