TTC After a Loss

Trisomy 16

My husband and I had 3 miscarriages June 2008, November 2008 and may 2009 since then I've been to broken to try again, well we are ready now. All 3 mc ended between 911 weeks and testing showed all babies were trisomy 16. I was put on promethium and curious if any of u have had luck after such events. I am close to 32... Clock is tickibg

Re: Trisomy 16

  • imagencchnat:

    I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board.

    Unfortunately, you won't find any success stories here since we're all still trying to conceive. You might want to ask this over on Pregnant After a Loss or Parenting After a Loss. They don't mind questions from people looking for hope.

    If you haven't yet, check out the TTCAL blog (link in the board header) especially the newbie section. I know it answered a lot of my questions when I first joined the board, even those I didn't know I had.

    I hope you find the same support and understanding that I have here and that you get to move over to PgAL soon.

    HUGS! 

    I'm going to echo ncchnat here.  PgAL and PAL are better for success stories.

    I.m so sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board.

    Have you and your done any genetic counselling?

     

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  • We haven't done the genetic consult as my doc has said we need to have 4 or more mc to get that referral.
  • I'm really sorry about your 3 losses.

    Probably if all 3 losses were due to trisomy 16, you and your DH should have more extensive testing.  That seems beyond coincidence that you just happened to conceive and then miscarry 3 fetuses with the same dx.  Prometrium isn't going to alter the DNA of a fetus.

    And 32 is not old BTW, but I know what you mean about feeling some urgency.

    I hope you find solace on this board and move quickly on to PgAL.  GL! 

    ETA Your doctor is an idiot.  You don't have to have 4 losses to have genetic counseling - you had 3 losses for THE SAME reason.  I'd push it with that doc or switch docs.  You don't need to put up with that nonsense. 

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  • imageMhempel80:
    We haven't done the genetic consult as my doc has said we need to have 4 or more mc to get that referral.

    That seems odd, it's not like you had 3 different chromosomal problems, you had 3 incidences of the same chromosomal issue.  There must some reason why it's always the 16th chromosomal pair.  You and DH should be tested to determine if  the 16th chromosome pair is mutated in one of you and does not separate properly during sperm/egg production.

    If it was me, I'd get a second opinion.  Sometimes you have to advocate for yourself.

    ETA:  Sorry if t comes off strongly.  I don't mean to try to diagnose you.  It's just that I feel your doctor should be checking this before you try again.  It seems like maybe more than coincidence.

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  • imageMhempel80:
    We haven't done the genetic consult as my doc has said we need to have 4 or more mc to get that referral.

     

    I would check with your ins. company about this.  The 4 loss bit may be your dr's rec or protocol but most ins. companies will pay after 2 if there is known cause and almost all after 3 losses.  Many ins. companies do not require a referral.  I know mine does not and no policy that I've ever been on since being an independent adult has actually required a referral for a specialist.

     

    I'm very sorry for your losses.

  • imageCNYBride05:
    I'm really sorry about your 3 losses.Probably if all 3 losses were due to trisomy 16, you and your DH should have more extensive testing. nbsp;That seems beyond coincidence that you just happened tonbsp;conceivenbsp;and then miscarry 3 fetuses with the same dx. nbsp;Prometrium isn't going to alter the DNA of a fetus.And 32 is not old BTW, but I know what you mean about feeling some urgency.I hope you find solace on this board and move quickly on to PgAL. nbsp;GL!nbsp;ETA Your doctor is an idiot. nbsp;You don't have to have 4 losses to have genetic counseling you had 3 losses for THE SAME reason. nbsp;I'd push it with that doc or switch docs. nbsp;You don't need to put up with that nonsense.nbsp;

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  • imagencchnat:

    I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board.

    Unfortunately, you won't find any success stories here since we're all still trying to conceive. You might want to ask this over on Pregnant After a Loss or Parenting After a Loss. They don't mind questions from people looking for hope.

    If you haven't yet, check out the TTCAL blog (link in the board header) especially the newbie section. I know it answered a lot of my questions when I first joined the board, even those I didn't know I had.

    I hope you find the same support and understanding that I have here and that you get to move over to PgAL soon.

    HUGS! 

    Ditto this! I am very sorry for your losses, welcome to the board.
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    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
     "An angel in the book of life wrote down my baby's birth. Then whispered as she closed the book "too beautiful for earth"

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    ♥♡♥ PAL/PGAL welcome♥♡♥
  • I agree with other posters... you should definitely check with your insurance company and/or get a new doctor.  my husband and i had a daughter who was diagnosed with trisomy 13 at our anatomy scan (we carried her to term and had about a half hour with her).  she was our first (and so far, only) child and we were both able to have genetic testing covered by our insurances.  i highly recommend looking further into this...

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