TTC after 35

Introduction

Hello! My name is Leslie and I will be 40 in September.  I have been lurking for a little while and wanted to say hello!  We are going to be starting to TTC #3, hopefully in mid-September if my body cooperates.  I will be taking 10 days of provera starting on 9/1 to jump start AF since I rarely ovulate on my own.

Our oldest son was conceived after 3 years of infertility (2 years of treatments) and is 22 months.  And our second son was conceived on our first treatment cycle in our journey to TTC #2 - he is an angel who was born sleeping at 18w on 6/15/12.  Both of ours sons were conceived through injectable/iui cycles so that is what we will be starting with in September.  The one difference this time is that my DH will be traveling quite a bit and so we have frozen his sperm to use in the event he is not home.  Has anyone done this before & been successful?

I am going through several different emotions as we are closer to TTC again.  I am different person after our recent loss but am still hopeful that we will have another child in our life next year and together as a family we will remember & honor our angel!

I hope to find support here as well as support y'all throughout your journeys! Thank you! I look forward to getting to know you better but hope at the same time that our stays are short and sweet!!

Re: Introduction

  • Welcome and I wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss and hope you find this board helpful.

    Me 38 MH 41 - TTC since June 2010 - dx with Severe MFI. Straight to IVF with ICSI. IVF #1 - ER 06/13/12 - 9 Eggs Retrieved - 4 ICSI'd - only 2 fert. 06/15/12 - 2DT - 3 cell & 6 cell with fragmentation. Beta 06/29/12 - IVF #1 = BFN. 07/20/12 - WTF Appt -Told by our RE to quit IVF. Second Opinion from RE is good. IVF#2 - November 2012. Estradiol Pills Started 11/6. Stims start 11/16. ER 11/26 - 7 eggs retrieved - all mature. 4 fertilized with ICSI. ET 11/29 Transferred 3 embryos. Beta is 12/10. 1st Beta 81 2nd Beta 160 and 3rd beta 360!!! First U/S 12/21/12 - We saw one beautiful gest. sac. 2nd U/S is 01/04/2013 - H/B 183 02/05/13 - NT Scan - everything looks good and IT'S A BOY!  Aiden was born 08/20/2013.

    IVF #2 is in progress.  ER was 05/12/14 - 11 eggs retrieved, 8 fertilized with ICSI.  ET was 05/15/14 - we transferred 3 embryos as we did on the cycle my son was conceived.  We were able to freeze 3 embryos. Beta is scheduled for 05/26/14.  1st beta - 111.  2nd beta - 159 didn't double :( 3rd beta Friday 5/30) - not a lot of hope left. Beta # 3 is 247 - probably ectopic.  Beta # 4 is 813 - possibly vanishing multiple sydrome?  06/05/14 - 5w4days - first U/S - we see a gestational sac and yolk - still have hope!  06/17/14 - 7w1day - U/S and saw and heard the heartbeat - Finally!  06/27/14 - 8w4days - Baby and heartbeat look and sound great :)  EDD 02/01/14 and It's a boy!


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  • Welcome.  I am so sorry for your loss. My 1st was conceived w/injects and iui and we are hoping it will work for our 2nd.  Good Luck to you!
    Me: 38, PCOS/ DH: 37

    DD born 12.21.09, conceived w/ injects and IUI



    TTC#2 since Nov 2011

    BFP 2.6.12 m/c 6w5d | BFP 5.25.12 c/p

    -Back to the RE-

    3 medicated IUIs, all BFN

    -Taking a break from treatment-

    BFP 11.20.12 ~ EDD 7.28.13

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  • So sorry for your loss but welcome - hope your stay here is short.
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
  • Welcome, Leslie! I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, but I am also hoping your stay here is short.

     These ladies are a great source of support for each other - we all cheer each others ups and lean on each other during the lows. 

    Good luck!!

    "Don't look back, you can never look back." - Don Henley
  • Thank you for the welcome notes and support! I appreciate it very much!
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