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9 month old twins and pregnant again!

Hello ladies!  I just found out that I'm expecting baby #3....and I have boy/girl twins who are 9 months old, which means the twins will be 17 months older than #3.  Being pregnant was a complete shock!  It took us 3 years and multiple rounds of fertility treatments to have the twins, so we never expected to get pregnant the "old fashioned way".

 All of that to say, I'm a bit overwhelmed right now!  I'm nervous about managing all three kids, plus I feel guilty about the twins not having more of my time before bringing #3 into the picture.  Any advice, similar experiences, etc would be welcome... 

August 2008 - Started TTC November 2009 - IUI#1 - BFN December 2009 - IUI#2 - BFN January 2010 - IUI#3 - BFN February 2010 - IUI#4 - BFN May 2010 - IUI#5 - BFN July/August 2010 - IVF#1 - Ectopic Pregnancy December 2010 - FET#1 - BFN February/March 2011 - FET#2 - BFP! TWINS BORN ON 11/11/11!!

Re: 9 month old twins and pregnant again!

  • Oh my! Congratulations! My DS and the new baby will be 13.5 months apart. This pregnancy was a surprise too! I don't have any advice yet but I am also nervous and I also feel guilty of my son not having more of my time. But then I think any children after him will have zero me time, so really he got 13.5 extra months of me time than anyone else! Good luck to you! 
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  • Congratulations!!

    No advice really yet from me either. I am getting induced tomorrow! DS #2 was a surprise for us as well due to our IF history, we thought it would take a LOT longer to get pregnant again. I can tell you though I have battled emotions over feeling bad I didn't get more one on one time with just DS, shoot, I am STILL battling it. I look forward though to watching them interact and grow together. Good Luck!!

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker *First RE visit 5/10 *B/W & SA Normal! 6/10 *Laprascopy - Removed septum and cyst 7/10 *50 mg Clomid 8/21 +Trigger 9/1 = BFN *50 mg Clomid 9/17 = No response *100 mg Clomid 9/29 + Trigger 10/8= BFP!! *Beta 1= 297 *Beta 2= 612! *It's a Boy! EDD July 4th 2011 *Surprise!! Natural BFP! Beta 1=306, Beta 2= 1100! EDD Aug 18th 2012! IT's a BOY!
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