My best friend just lost her baby after just a few weeks of life. Her husband thinks I should drive up and get her out of her room and her funk...I on the other hand have just had my own child this year and feel that it is more than he can understand since he did not carry the baby. I feel I should give her more than 2 days,,,but several days to morn in her own way and then I'll get her out and about. She has not answered my calls but I know that she knows she can call if she needs to just talk. what do you suggest? I am sorry that you are all on this board, I can't imagine the pain but I know seeing your best friend go through it has been absolutely awful!