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Can't take any more sad news.....

cmenascocmenasco member
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My Dad and Step-mom are suppose to be flying from FL to OR next week for my little brothers wedding and I have not seen him face to face since the loss.  We are super close and I know it is going to be great to have him here but not looking forward to the breakdown I know I will have.

Well, he called last night and my step-mom is going in for an emergency surgery cause they found a mass on her ovary and may be cancer (don't know 100% yet - but odds are not good I guess).  She has been my step mom since I was 15 and we are super close as well.  Our baby girl was actually going to be named after her.  

Im super scared that it's going to be cancer and he is going to have bad news when he calls back.  I'm sad he may not come next week, all I want to do is cry.  Why do we have to have even more sadness.   And to make matters worse, my brother and his future wife are on cloud nine.  All giddy, excited, happy, and they are clueless to the feelings my DH and I are feeling.  We live in the same town so we see eachother often and EVERY SINGLE TIME my future SIL ask how I am doing....really?  I just saw you YESTERDAY and you are asking me again!?!?!?  I'm really trying to be nice as her wedding is in just a few weeks, but part of me wants to come unglued on her!!  I

Any thoughts or prayers would be appreciated for my Step-mom and thanks for listening to me rant! 

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  • jbranden12jbranden12 member
    I am so sorry, I hope the surgery goes well and that her condition is treatable. 


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  • JonesBaby0624JonesBaby0624 member

    I am so sorry there is more sad news.  I will pray for your step mom's surgery and what they find.

    Have you tried writing when you feel angry (like at your future sil)?  I have went off on my blog (just really close friends) a few times, just saying what I would like to say to others, and just getting it out to them has helped. Just an idea! 

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  • Bayberry12Bayberry12 member

    I'm sorry you are going through this right now.  I hope your step-mom's surgery goes well.  I know how much it sucks to be asked "how are you doing".

    I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.  

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  • Mrs NiceMrs Nice member

    I am so sorry you have to go through more bad news. I hope everything turns out okay. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. 

    Big Hugs! 

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