Dry Spell?

brooke&ryan&baby

It's been a little over two weeks now since DH and I have had sex, before that we were having it about once a week. When we do have sex it's better than it's ever been. Boo

 

Edit: We also in our early twenties

babymayben

We haven;t had sex in a while. I'm just npt up for it. Thank god my husband understands! I do miss though and cant wait to be able get back on track.

FrickandFrack

I don't even remember the last time we had sex but I would say it's been over a month.  I feel bad but I'm too damn tired most of the time.

Shan7usaf

Right around the time your in, the same thing happened to us.  It was strange and now we do it when we can.. What I mean by that is when I am up for it, because I am huge now and it is uncomfortable sometimes and then other times my pelvis hurts so bad that I can't do it at all lol!!

It sucks but im sure you guys will be fine!

FYI:  We are in our mid twenties!

anonymous

MandJS:

I've been on doctor-ordered pelvic rest - e.g., no sex, no oral, no NOTHING fun for me - since late May. We're now in mid-August. And no sign of the doctor easing back on the pelvic rest issue. 

I am so sorry. That sounds awful. Are you doing okay, otherwise, or is this just a precautionary thing? 

numberonemama

I have had sex once in five weeks...DH is not into it...I'm into it!  He did this with DS too!  He promised he wouldn't starve me of sex again.  I'm convinced he doesn't like the belly (and it's not even that big this time - we don't even have to get creative with positions).

k.martell

DH and I haven't lived more than 48 hrs together since February so sex is very sporatic.  Thank god for internet porn
Hopefully things will change when we move Saturday.

jennygirlmt

Around 32 weeks last time things shifted and it became super painful. Then we didn't have much sex the whole first year with DD because I would literally cry from the pain. So we are trying to get it in while we can (ironically it's more DH passing out at night from being exhausted than me!). Has anything changed in your schedule? It could be a short spell. But if it's actually good then keep instigating it! :-) 

LindaLamour

It's been over a month here. I've been wanting it like crazy but my SO has 2 ruptured discs in his back, a pinched nerve, and he works 14 hours a day. His much needed back surgery won't be scheduled until after DD is born. Who knows when we'll have sex again?

kristinanderik

It's been four months!  Why? DH isn't into it....at all.  I feel like we'll never have sex again, lol.

JayMOOMOO

all of you ladies are blessed and lucky. Soon as i got preggo the Hubby stopped. I know why though. He is scared because the last time i was pregnant we lost the baby before i found out. I started to bleed after intercourse and when i went to the Dr. They said i had miscarried........ He thinks it was all his fault. so no fun for me im really 29 weeks i do not know why my ticker says 30 weeks.

kruthaup11

first trimester i couldnt get enough and wore dh out, but he also worked out of town the first 3 months i was pg, second trimester was normal.....3rd trimester i rarely want it and he wants it 24/7..i feel like a whale, im extremly uncomfortable and cant get in the mood. i still try atleast :S

 

DH IS 26 AND I AM 24.......

mmeans1224

We just had sex for the first time in couple of months two nights ago.  We've done other fun things but actual sex was too painful for me.  Thankfully, it didn't hurt the last time we did it and I actually started to get into it.  The only problem is I had to be on top because my belly is big and I got really out of breath and my arms got tired! LOL.  We got a good laugh out of that one

Rosemarie254

I BE WANTING TO HAVE SEX BUT MY FIANCE TELLS ME HES SCARED MY WATER MIGHT BREAK ON HIM LOL I FIND IT KIND OF FUNNY IM 38WKS PREGNANT GOING ON MY 39TH WK AND IM SO MISRABLE I DONT KNOW HWOW ELES TO GET HIM TO BE COMFORTABLE.

PrimRoseMama

Sorry to say it can be hard to have sex in 3rd trimester. Also, after you give birth you will have 6 to 8 not 68! Omg weeks of doctor ordered abstinence.

I found massage cuddling to be a good substitute especially when you are too tired to do anything but lay there. Good luck!

Edit: bumping from mobile is weird!

aaimee

MandJS:

I've been on doctor-ordered pelvic rest - e.g., no sex, no oral, no NOTHING fun for me - since late May. We're now in mid-August.

I've been the same since the last week of March.. I'm now just past my due date.. I can't wait for my clearence from the doc after I have our LO...