Hello! My DH and I just recently decided to go off the pill. And we agreed that it would be better not to tell people we're "trying" (for some reason I greatly dislike that phrase) just in case our efforts are not fruitful etc. Anyhoo...it is really hard not to talk about it! I broke down and told my mom because I had so many questions, and a couple of other folks kind of found out (the Dr. when I went in for a cold, and someone who I knew could recommend better condoms). But I'm a talker...and not telling anyone else is really really really hard! So I'm really looking forward to strolling through these message boards and hopefully finding answers to all of my many many questions and worries. Thanks in advance!