FFFC

Jills83

Happy Friday!  Confessions, anyone?

My sister already flamed me for this: Last week when we were out on the boat, V was throwing a fit and really needed a nap.  He was hot and uncomfortable in his life jacket so I took it off him. He fell asleep immediately and didn't wear it for the rest of the time on the boat. 

Not really flameful, but DH threw his back out and had to sleep in the guest bedroom because that mattress is firmer.  I was really really excited last night to sprawl out in our bed alone.  I slept great too!

Rachel5782

This is really an UO but since no one posted one yesterday I'll just post it here.

 

I much prefer DS's poopy diapers now that he eats regular food than when he was on formula.  When he was ff, he was much more prone to blow outs.  Now "everything" stays in one place. The smell is worse but I kinda like it that way because there's no guesswork when I need to change a poopy diaper.   I hated when he was an infant and I was always trying to peek to see if he pooped.

IdigDirt

I really want cake or cookies right now but I can't spend any money so I can't get any from the vending machine. Not really flame full but I need cookies!!! 

magnoliablossom00

I volunteered to make a chocolate cake for my sister's going away party tonight. I completely plan on eating some of the batter first. Yum!

CantWait2Be

Dh and I still haven't had sex since a few months before ds was born. I am just too stressed out financially and dh is the cause of a good majority of it that I am not attracted to him.  Anyone else still not had sex?

kimbo1216

CantWait2Be:

Dh and I still haven't had sex since a few months before ds was born. I am just too stressed out financially and dh is the cause of a good majority of it that I am not attracted to him.  Anyone else still not had sex?

This makes me sad.    I know sex isn't everything, but that's more than a dry spell.  Do y'all have anyone that could provide you with some sort of free/cheap counseling?  Like a pastor or community program?  I promise I'm not flaming, but from your short paragraph here, it sounds like y'all could use some outside help if you have any desire to be more than just roommates again.  

CarlaAndJames

I opened the tupperware of dirty diapers from daycare yesterday and it smelled AMAZING. I guess daycare found the tube of Blueberry crumble CJ's butter I put in her bag. My baby's bottom smells GOOD!

M&M227

I've done absolutely nothing the entire time DD has been napping today.  She barely napped yesterday and took a 90 minute nap this morning and her afternoon nap is still going (it's been over 90 minutes).  And while she's been napping this afternnoon, I've been sitting on my butt.  I should be cleaning and folding laundry.

amberpro

I know exactly which episodes the Buffy gifs came from in the gif war thread. 

CantWait2Be

kimbo1216:

CantWait2Be:

Dh and I still haven't had sex since a few months before ds was born. I am just too stressed out financially and dh is the cause of a good majority of it that I am not attracted to him.  Anyone else still not had sex?

This makes me sad.    I know sex isn't everything, but that's more than a dry spell.  Do y'all have anyone that could provide you with some sort of free/cheap counseling?  Like a pastor or community program?  I promise I'm not flaming, but from your short paragraph here, it sounds like y'all could use some outside help if you have any desire to be more than just roommates again.  

 

No we don't have anyone.  

MammaBear81

CantWait2Be:

kimbo1216:

CantWait2Be:

Dh and I still haven't had sex since a few months before ds was born. I am just too stressed out financially and dh is the cause of a good majority of it that I am not attracted to him.  Anyone else still not had sex?

This makes me sad.    I know sex isn't everything, but that's more than a dry spell.  Do y'all have anyone that could provide you with some sort of free/cheap counseling?  Like a pastor or community program?  I promise I'm not flaming, but from your short paragraph here, it sounds like y'all could use some outside help if you have any desire to be more than just roommates again.  

 

No we don't have anyone.  

I know how you are feeling.  I have had to pull more than my fair share of financial weight in our household, and when DH got laid off for 9 months right after DS3 was born I was the same way.  It took DH a long time to understand that I was not "withholding sex to be mean" but when you don't know if you will lose your house next month (and your DH's lack of work is putting you in that situation) you really don't feel like being sexy FOR ANYONE. We have gotten through things,  with the help of our pastor (he had some great ideas I'd be happy to share), but if you want to chat, or just need to vent, feel free to PM me.  I'm sorry that you are going through this.