Anxiety over RCS

sugarland726

I've known since my 6 week PP visit that I will be having a RCS. I understand why and I'm not upset over never having a vaginal birth. My anxiety stems from the fact that I am scared of surgery. During DD's birth they tried to push more pain meds through the epidural but I could still feel before they started. So rather than attempt a spinal, I opted to be put completely under (labor was 24 hours at that point with 3 hours of pushing). I know that's not normal and for this one I will be awake for the surgery. I'm squeamish, afraid of needles and don't really like medical stuff or blood. What do you recommend I do to get more comfortable with the idea of a c-section. Any books to read? Advice you have for me? Thank you!

shibby00

Well in my experience I didn't see anything. No blood or guts, and DD was cleaned and swaddled before I saw her. You shouldn't see anything gross. GL. They can give you something to relax you after the baby is out if you need it. 

azzyberry

My 2nd was a RCS and I had a ton of anxiety over it because with my 1st c/s it was unplanned and everything happened so fast I didn't really have time to think about what was happening.  With my RCS I had 9 months to think about the surgery and what they were going to do and I was completely freaked out.

After it was over, I was wondering what the heck I was so scared about.  It was so easy.  Everyone was very calm and the whole environment was relaxing.  The worst part was getting the spinal and even that wasn't a big deal.  I just felt a small pinch and that was it.  I didn't see or feel anything.  I was laughing and joking with everyone and it was a really great experience.

I know it's hard not to be afraid before surgery but try not to worry too much.  It should be a much better experience for you

cmrand4

I am just 24 hours out of my 2nd c-section.  I totally understand your anxiety.  I was freaking out, especially since my water broke and everything happened so rapidly.  It was soo much easier than my first and my recovery is easier too.  Try not to worry but also talk to your dr about your anxiety.  They're there to take care of you and that includes your anxiety about having surgery.  Hang in there, you will do great! GL!

drmsg

MedTwice.com has good section devoted to c-sections and the operating room. There is video shot in the operating room that walks you through all the equipment and explains what everything is. There is no patient and no blood and guts! This may make things less intimidating for you.

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