Sound fair to you?

chocopotamus

Maybe I'm just hungry but anyway...

I just got off a 12 hour shift, got off work 30 minutes later than usual, then had to stop at the grocery store for H. So basically got off work at 7:30, and home around 8:15. I get to see DS for about half hour until he goes to bed between 8:30-8:45. Well I haven't eaten since lunch which was around 12. I asked H if he could give DS a bath so I could eat my dinner bc I'm starving (tv dinner btw). His reply was that he needed to unload something from his truck and that DS was a jerk to him after day care today...so inevitably I am sitting here giving DS a bath while people in Texas can hear my belly grumbling.

Is my H being unrational or am I just being a hungry b!tch? 

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I can see both sides, and can understand why you're both grouchy.    Sorry tonight blows. 

CoffeeBeen

A mama's gotta eat; a truck can wait.

ShellShockedMama

I would have backed him over with the truck while he was unloading it. 

LovesMM

chocopotamus:

Maybe I'm just hungry but anyway...

I just got off a 12 hour shift, got off work 30 minutes later than usual, then had to stop at the grocery store for H. So basically got off work at 7:30, and home around 8:15. I get to see DS for about half hour until he goes to bed between 8:30-8:45. Well I haven't eaten since lunch which was around 12. I asked H if he could give DS a bath so I could eat my dinner bc I'm starving (tv dinner btw). His reply was that he needed to unload something from his truck and that DS was a jerk to him after day care today...so inevitably I am sitting here giving DS a bath while people in Texas can hear my belly grumbling.

Is my H being unrational or am I just being a hungry b!tch? 

Was it a turkey?

quidditchcapn1120

I get really grumpy when I am hungry and am completely useless.  DH knows this and knows if I say I am hungry that it is serious.  I think what you asked of him was completely fair.

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LovesMM:

chocopotamus:

Maybe I'm just hungry but anyway...

I just got off a 12 hour shift, got off work 30 minutes later than usual, then had to stop at the grocery store for H. So basically got off work at 7:30, and home around 8:15. I get to see DS for about half hour until he goes to bed between 8:30-8:45. Well I haven't eaten since lunch which was around 12. I asked H if he could give DS a bath so I could eat my dinner bc I'm starving (tv dinner btw). His reply was that he needed to unload something from his truck and that DS was a jerk to him after day care today...so inevitably I am sitting here giving DS a bath while people in Texas can hear my belly grumbling.

Is my H being unrational or am I just being a hungry b!tch? 

Was it a turkey?

::snort::

Wufroggy79

ShellShockedMama:

I would have backed him over with the truck while he was unloading it. 

Something like this...

Cbidt's girl

He didn't need to unload his truck then obviously,he just didn't want to do bath and he'd figured you only had a short time to have to take care of DS so he figured you should do it.  

laurakaz13

My DH would never do this to me.  He was a jerk tonight and should have given your child a bath. 

ShellShockedMama

And I don't understand why he couldn't have said "well, I've had a rough afternoon with the kid. I'll entertain him while you eat but can you give him a bath?"

You didn't come home from the damn spa, you had a long and difficult day and just wanted to eat something.  

FordFalcor

ShellShockedMama:

I would have backed him over with the truck while he was unloading it. 

LOL His excuse about your DS was lame.

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anna karenina:

laurakaz13:

My DH would never do this to me.  He was a jerk tonight and should have given your child a bath. 

You're a jerk. 

Lol!  True though.

chocopotamus

quidditchcapn1120:

I get really grumpy when I am hungry and am completely useless.  DH knows this and knows if I say I am hungry that it is serious.  I think what you asked of him was completely fair.

Hes being really nice all of a sudden while I was getting Ds out of the bath and offered to get him dressed and ready for bed. I ended up doing it anyway bc I wanted to say goodnight. I think he realized he was being kind of a jerk. It is now 9:15 and I am finally heating up my meal  

IrishEyes0530

laurakaz13:

My DH would never do this to me.  He was a jerk tonight and should have given your child a bath. 

Well, when he does or does something jerk-like, don't come crying to us.

madamsmurfette

ShellShockedMama:

And I don't understand why he couldn't have said "well, I've had a rough afternoon with the kid. I'll entertain him while you eat but can you give him a bath?"

You didn't come home from the damn spa, you had a long and difficult day and just wanted to eat something.  

This.

I would have been pissed that DH wouldn't understand and do me the favor. But on the bright side, you got to spend a little extra time with DS, right?

jess60

That would most definitrly irritate the heck outta me.  I agree, jerk.

 

Btw, did I miss the update on if you ever POAS?  

Kitiara5512

** that, if you worked a longer shift, he should have done bath duty. He could have gotten shiit out of his truck after LO was in bed.

chocopotamus

jess60:

That would most definitrly irritate the heck outta me.  I agree, jerk.

 

Btw, did I miss the update on if you ever POAS?  

Negative! AF came about a week later  

Abinormal

I'd be eating my food in the bathroom, lol!