just got 4 positives!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this will be our first!!!!!! I'm teetering between excited and apprehensive about being excited! lol. just wanted to share the news...
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
No, you wouldn't have said anything to us because you don't ever post here. Except this thread, to post your BFP and the other thread you started to say how frustrated you are with TTC after 3 months. That is as far as your "contribution" to the board goes.
I'm pretty sure no one recognized you. Posters here are very supportive of ladies they know, but don't appreciate strangers dropping in to announce a BFP. It's sort of like rubbing it in the faces of people who are trying to get pregnant.
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
We don't know who you are. Would you run up to a bunch of strangers on the street and tell them you're pregnant?
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
Maybe if you put one ounce of effort into congratulating someone here first, others would try giving a sh!t about you.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
You have 9 posts, so you weren't an active member of this board. To come wave your positive test around a board full of people trying to conceive who don't have a clue as to who you are is tactless. Good luck on TB.
Also, when you edit a post, it's considered polite to put an ETA (insert reason) at the bottom of it.
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
It looks like you have barely posted here. It is hard for strangers to be excited for you when you never post. If you would have been well known on the board and actually posted while you were TTC and got to know the girls I am sure they would be happier for you.
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
KK said congrats to you along with myself. You had all of 7 posts before this thread. And if you lurked more you would find out that if someone has good news, they are often congratulated on their good news BUT they were active members of this board sharing congrats to other people before or helping out others with questions or offering sympothies to others. They have a lot more that 7 posts before this. That is why you are quicly being directed to 1st tri board and being told you are a drive-by. The post right after you is also a drive-by but she had you beat by 2 posts.
Again, congrats and I hope you have a wonderful 9 months. Enjoy your first baby!
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Exactly what I was thinking. I don't post on here much because I think it's too nasty. I am very excited for you! Congratulations on moving to the next board, hopefully it is full of supportive women. Good Luck!
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
Oh GTFO of here, you had 7 post. You made no connection with any of the ladies here yet you felt to need to post your BFP. We are always happy for BFP from active members of the board... bye-bye
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
There have been a bunch of BFPs since you joined. Where have all your congrats been for those ladies?
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Exactly what I was thinking. I don't post on here much because I think it's too nasty. I am very excited for you! Congratulations on moving to the next board, hopefully it is full of supportive women. Good Luck!
Then why did you post this? And then why are you here?
If you don't want to be here, then leave. No need to say you don't like it. If you didn't like it, you didn't need to come back here.
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wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
just got 4 positives!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this will be our first!!!!!! I'm teetering between excited and apprehensive about being excited! lol. just wanted to share the news...
If you would've lurked for awhile, you would've known how much the ladies here HATE drive by BFP posts. Unless you want to share in our losses and successes and be an active part of the boards, don't expect us to be excited for you...
have fun being a bunch of miserable, jealous ! i hope this gets flagged and they ban me from the site. it won't matter, i won't be back. keep up the negative, bitchy attitudes, that'll come in handy for you in life. shitty things happen to shitty people. so good luck with that!
have fun being a bunch of miserable, jealous ! i hope this gets flagged and they ban me from the site. it won't matter, i won't be back. keep up the negative, bitchy attitudes, that'll come in handy for you in life. shitty things happen to shitty people. so good luck with that!
Pot meet kettle.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
have fun being a bunch of miserable, jealous ! i hope this gets flagged and they ban me from the site. it won't matter, i won't be back. keep up the negative, bitchy attitudes, that'll come in handy for you in life. shitty things happen to shitty people. so good luck with that!
Same sh!t.... we are mean and bitter blah blah.... Thanks for playing
Exactly what I was thinking. I don't post on here much because I think it's too nasty. I am very excited for you! Congratulations on moving to the next board, hopefully it is full of supportive women. Good Luck!
It is....women from this board who participated and got to know others while they TTC. The newbs just blow rainbows and misinformation up your a$$.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
have fun being a bunch of miserable, jealous ! i hope this gets flagged and they ban me from the site. it won't matter, i won't be back. keep up the negative, bitchy attitudes, that'll come in handy for you in life. shitty things happen to shitty people. so good luck with that!
have fun being a bunch of miserable, jealous ! i hope this gets flagged and they ban me from the site. it won't matter, i won't be back. keep up the negative, bitchy attitudes, that'll come in handy for you in life. shitty things happen to shitty people. so good luck with that!
Pot meet kettle.
You got it! Be careful what you wish for others....karma is a b!
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
Congrats!!! I wish you a H&H 9 months!
Ps. Banished and envied, hardly
Married BF 6/29/2002/ TTC Since Aug 2011/ ME:34 all clear/DH:41 DX Severe MFI/ IVF w/ICSI OCT 2012 Stims started 10/8/ER 10/19/12/ET 10/24/Beta#1 11/2=BFN (beta was 1.2)
IVF 2.0-Baseline 11/7/12 beta 0/All Clear Stim start 11/7/12//ER 11/19 11M//10F ET 2 embies 11/24//Beta#1 28 Beta #2 23 Beta#3 29 stop meds Beta#4 37/C/P 5W5D EDD:8/12/13/IVF#3 in Jan
Ivf 3-frozen 3 poor 3day/fet=bfn
Ivf#4 New dr. New protocol=beta1 197 beta#2 677 beta#3 1557
have fun being a bunch of miserable, jealous ! i hope this gets flagged and they ban me from the site. it won't matter, i won't be back. keep up the negative, bitchy attitudes, that'll come in handy for you in life. shitty things happen to shitty people. so good luck with that!
I can arrange that. Thanks for playing!
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
wow. note to self....bump forums are not exactly full of supportive women. you're nasty. oh, and rude. a "congrats" would have been nice....that's what I would have said to YOU. and I'm well aware where the first trimester board is, thanks. up until NOW this was the board for me...but I guess as soon as someone has good news they are banished and envied? grow up, all of you.
I promise to never forget that this little dude deserves just as much love after the baby comes as he has now.
Me & H: 28
TTC #1 since 7/12...come on baby!
You probably don't know & probably don't care, but it is considered rude & rubbing a BFP (positive HPT) in people's faces when you gleefully announce you are pregnant to a board full of people who really want to be. Not only that, but it's offensive when you haven't even participated on the board or gotten to know us at all.
I am happy for you & your good news, but First Trimester is a better place to "tell someone" than on a board where people are still trying. Some posters could be having a bad day & they don't need to hear about a perfect stranger's positive. Please move along, you don't belong here: you are pregnant, not trying. The ladies on first trimester can relate to your excitement. Happy pregnancy & hope to get to know you when you come back for #2.
Re: eeeeeeeeeeeeeek!!!!!!!
Baby girl #1 7/11/13
Baby girl #2 4/30/15
Baby Boy Due 2/16/19!
Really? I don't remember
OP, enjoy 1st Tri!
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
HAHAHAHA!! Awesome! Love it!
Congrats on your BFP, enjoy your 9 months!
OMG! I loved Eek the cat!!! I also loved Pepper Anne!
I freakin loved Pepper Ann!
No, you wouldn't have said anything to us because you don't ever post here. Except this thread, to post your BFP and the other thread you started to say how frustrated you are with TTC after 3 months. That is as far as your "contribution" to the board goes.
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/67593209.aspx
Tyler (10/29/08)
and Lily (4/21/13)
I'm pretty sure no one recognized you. Posters here are very supportive of ladies they know, but don't appreciate strangers dropping in to announce a BFP. It's sort of like rubbing it in the faces of people who are trying to get pregnant.
Good luck with your pregnancy.
ETA: Sorry, meant to quote OP's angry post.
We don't know who you are. Would you run up to a bunch of strangers on the street and tell them you're pregnant?
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Maybe if you put one ounce of effort into congratulating someone here first, others would try giving a sh!t about you.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
This never gets old -- I love random BFPs!
...said no one ever.
~*~*May 2013 Moms Website*~*~
You have 9 posts, so you weren't an active member of this board. To come wave your positive test around a board full of people trying to conceive who don't have a clue as to who you are is tactless. Good luck on TB.
Also, when you edit a post, it's considered polite to put an ETA (insert reason) at the bottom of it.
It looks like you have barely posted here. It is hard for strangers to be excited for you when you never post. If you would have been well known on the board and actually posted while you were TTC and got to know the girls I am sure they would be happier for you.
Good luck with your pregnancy.
KK said congrats to you along with myself. You had all of 7 posts before this thread. And if you lurked more you would find out that if someone has good news, they are often congratulated on their good news BUT they were active members of this board sharing congrats to other people before or helping out others with questions or offering sympothies to others. They have a lot more that 7 posts before this. That is why you are quicly being directed to 1st tri board and being told you are a drive-by. The post right after you is also a drive-by but she had you beat by 2 posts.
Again, congrats and I hope you have a wonderful 9 months. Enjoy your first baby!
I just snorted.
Oh GTFO of here, you had 7 post. You made no connection with any of the ladies here yet you felt to need to post your BFP. We are always happy for BFP from active members of the board... bye-bye
There have been a bunch of BFPs since you joined. Where have all your congrats been for those ladies?
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Then why did you post this? And then why are you here?
If you don't want to be here, then leave. No need to say you don't like it. If you didn't like it, you didn't need to come back here.
Same ole sh.....just a different day.
If you would've lurked for awhile, you would've known how much the ladies here HATE drive by BFP posts. Unless you want to share in our losses and successes and be an active part of the boards, don't expect us to be excited for you...
Pot meet kettle.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Same sh!t.... we are mean and bitter blah blah.... Thanks for playing
It is....women from this board who participated and got to know others while they TTC. The newbs just blow rainbows and misinformation up your a$$.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
You got it! Be careful what you wish for others....karma is a b!
Congrats!!! I wish you a H&H 9 months!
Ps. Banished and envied, hardly
TTC Since Aug 2011/
ME:34 all clear/DH:41 DX Severe MFI/
IVF w/ICSI OCT 2012 Stims started 10/8/ER 10/19/12/ET 10/24/Beta#1 11/2=BFN (beta was 1.2)
IVF 2.0-Baseline 11/7/12 beta 0/All Clear
Stim start 11/7/12//ER 11/19 11M//10F
ET 2 embies 11/24//Beta#1 28 Beta #2 23 Beta#3 29
stop meds Beta#4 37/C/P 5W5D EDD:8/12/13/IVF#3 in Jan
Ivf 3-frozen 3 poor 3day/fet=bfn
My Chart//>
I can arrange that. Thanks for playing!
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
It's Ms. Jackson if you're nasty.
Wait, I thought Tuesday was over...
Congrats on your BFP, though!
Me & H: 28 TTC #1 since 7/12...come on baby!
You probably don't know & probably don't care, but it is considered rude & rubbing a BFP (positive HPT) in people's faces when you gleefully announce you are pregnant to a board full of people who really want to be. Not only that, but it's offensive when you haven't even participated on the board or gotten to know us at all.
I am happy for you & your good news, but First Trimester is a better place to "tell someone" than on a board where people are still trying. Some posters could be having a bad day & they don't need to hear about a perfect stranger's positive. Please move along, you don't belong here: you are pregnant, not trying. The ladies on first trimester can relate to your excitement. Happy pregnancy & hope to get to know you when you come back for #2.
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