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Random Poll: S/O Edition

1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.)

2) Where did you meet your SO?

3) How long have you been together?

4) Where did you go on your first date?

5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?

6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?

7) When is your anniversary?

8) How's your sex life?

9) How is s/he with LO?

10) What's your SO's best physical feature?

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married. Anniversary was yesterday

    2) Where did you meet your SO? We met through friends. (Read: Friendster, but we actually did have mutual friends!)

    3) How long have you been together? 9yrs 1d

    4) Where did you go on your first date? A little Japanese restaurant around midnight. He ate, I watched since I had already had dinner. It was very last minute.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? We were getting ready to go out for our anniversary dinner. He was sitting in the living room and gave me my present (a watch) and hid the ring in the same box. I saw the ring and looked at him like "you gave me a watch and a ring?" and he said "well?" I heard from his friend that he spent weeks thinking of a way to propose and somehow ended up with "well?" Men... Confused

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? He is a terrible back seat driver!

    7) When is your anniversary? Aug. 2

    8) How's your sex life? Hah! You're funny.

    9) How is s/he with LO? He is great with her if they are just playing. Other than that, useless!

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? Butt?

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? In Fairbanks AK his friend was dating my cousin by dating a mean banging she was a total wh0re.

    3) How long have you been together? 7 years but we have known each other much longer.

    4) Where did you go on your first date? To a movie

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? On New Years Eve at the lake.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? He sleeps all day on the weekend.

    7) When is your anniversary?Jan 4

    8) How's your sex life? No complaints

    9) How is s/he with LO?Awesome.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? He has a nice butt!

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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? Work

    3) How long have you been together? 6 years 4 months, married for almost 5

    4) Where did you go on your first date? Buffalo Wild Wings. I knew he was a winner that day

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? I had been bugging him about my ring for a while, so one day he showed up at my apartment and said "here's your ring." It was romantic.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? He asks 23094834 questions about everything. It's cute.. sometimes.

    7) When is your anniversary? October 27

    8) How's your sex life? Lolz. I just put this one in for kicks and giggles. We have sex maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes more, but usually less.

    9) How is s/he with LO? He's awesome with her. He loves telling everyone he can everything about her.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? His red hair, obviously.
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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) **Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO?  **Work--I was his boss :)

    3) How long have you been together?  **7 and married for 3

    4) Where did you go on your first date? **Hmm, well, we hung out for the first time at a bar.  I guess the next night was more of a date and we went bowling.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?  **When I got out of the shower he was there on one knee with Daisy in one arm and my ring in the other.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?  **He's not good at all about talking about his emotions

    7) When is your anniversary?  **August 1, 2009

    8) How's your sex life?  **To me, fine.  I have no desire :)  To him probably lacking.  I do give in a couple times a week.

    9) How is s/he with LO?  **Awesome!

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature?  **Hmmm, I love his arms :)

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  • 1) What's your status? married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? work

    3) How long have you been together? 5 years

    4) Where did you go on your first date? floating restaurant

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? at the restaurant we had our first date at... in the hallway because he couldn't wait to get to the table... lol!

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? He's too damn busy... he just needs to chill sometimes

    7) When is your anniversary? June

    8) How's your sex life? Whats sex again?

    9) How is s/he with LO? Good until he starts crying... then he zones out. Drives me batty.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? He's a big tall guy

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Happily married (today anyway hehe)!

    2) Where did you meet your SO? Gasp....in a bar.

    3) How long have you been together? 7 years

    4) Where did you go on your first date? Longhorn's steakhouse on my 30th birthday.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?  In the living room in our pajamas. 

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? You don't have enough time and there isn't enough space in this post...but I love him!

    7) When is your anniversary? Oct 14th

    8) How's your sex life? AWESOME!!!  Finally...we're finally on schedules that make it possible to do it more than once a week.

    9) How is s/he with LO? He is an amazing father!!  Overprotective and OCD but amazing.  He was really uneasy and uninvolved with DD#2 at first but as her personality has emerged he has just fallen head over heels for her.  She'll be his best friend just like DD#1 is.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? Can I say that on here?  Kidding!!!  His eyes...they're brown and he has thick long lashes...gorgeous eyes!

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.)

    Married almost 6 years

    2) Where did you meet your SO?

    On a blind date - set up by a mutual acquaintence

    3) How long have you been together?

    7 years

    4) Where did you go on your first date?

    Brunch at a now-shuttered restaurant.  The food and service were not so good, and we made fun of things the entire time.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?

    He made a nice dinner for us and served ice cream with fortune cookies on the side of the bowl for dessert.  He had plucked out the original fortune and replaced it with a slip of paper where he wrote "would you marry me?"  I was completely shocked.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?

    He has to have music on all.the.time.  Also is a political junkie, and sometimes I just don't want to hear about crazy crap the government is doing but he feels obliged to tell me....zzzz.....

    7) When is your anniversary?

    Mid-September

    8) How's your sex life?

    Ha ha ha...we have DTD successfully (i.e., withough such pain that I made him stop) all of twice since DS arrived almost 10 months ago...so not very well...

    9) How is s/he with LO?

    Quite good.  He is getting better and better as DS gets older.  However, DS is in such a mommy fixated mode right now, I end up with him almost all the time.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature?

    He was amazing blue eyes with long blonde eyelashes. 

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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.)

     - Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO?

    - 6th Grade

    3) How long have you been together?

    -Together for 8 1/2 years, married for almost 3 years

    4) Where did you go on your first date?

    - Camping with a bunch of friends

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?

    - He picked a fight with me on purpose on Christmas Eve and then when I went to bed mad by myself he came in and put the ring on my finger while I slept.  When I woke up he was on his knee by the bed and asked me to marry him. 

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?

    -His parents haha

     7) When is your anniversary?

    October 3

    8) How's your sex life?

    Well.... when he is actually on the same continent as me it is good!  However, we haven't had any PP sex yet so I'm curious as to what that will be like when he gets home,

    9) How is s/he with LO

    - He hasn't met her yet Huh?

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature?

    His eyes.  They are blue/green and amazing.

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  • 1) Happily married

    2) Online (LavaLife!!)

    3)  Married 7 years, known each other for almost 9

    4) We went on a hike in Boulder - Flatirons.

    5)  He proposed at the summit of the hike that we took for our first date (see question 4).  It was on my birthday, the snow was falling he was on one knee and we were the only people around for miles - it was perfect!

    6)  He loves to go on endless rants.  We very rarely agree on things (he's conservative, I'm liberal) - so he'll do a lot of "you know what's wrong with this country?..." diatribes.  (Honestly though, I kinda like it because it usually leads to some cool discussions - assuming I can get a word in edgewise!)

    7) May 28th

    8)  Really good!  (It was pretty bad a couple months ago - but we're getting our groove back - thank goodness!)

    9)  Incredible!  He's very protective - but he is just so darn sweet around her.  He's always been pretty serious, but she brings out the goofy in him and whenever she's arond he's always beaming.  It makes my heart so happy to see!

    10)  His eyes - they're blue/green - positively brilliant with his dark hair!  I was hoping Pip would have them, but she inherited my brown eyes (darn!).

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? At the premiere of SW Episode I - yes, we're geeks.

    3) How long have you been together? 13 years, although there was some short time apart.

    4) Where did you go on your first date? Group dinner and a movie, then just the two of us drove around town and ended up at a swanky piano bar.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? He asked me over Thanksgiving breakfast (also his parents' anniversary), with both our families staying at our house.  So perfect, and so us.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? That he tailgates, bad.  When I ask him to lay off, he drops back to a whole 10 feet behind the other car.

    7) When is your anniversary? Oct 20

    8) How's your sex life? Pathetic lately - v rest sucks.  But we had a good time yesterday for the first time in a long time (within doc's orders).

    9) How is s/he with LO? I imagine he's going to be awesome, because he's already awesome with me, her, and the dogs.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? Arms!  


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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) **Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO?  **Work--I was his boss :)

    3) How long have you been together?  **7 and married for 3

    4) Where did you go on your first date? **Hmm, well, we hung out for the first time at a bar.  I guess the next night was more of a date and we went bowling.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?  **When I got out of the shower he was there on one knee with Daisy in one arm and my ring in the other.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?  **He's not good at all about talking about his emotions

    7) When is your anniversary?  **August 1, 2009

    8) How's your sex life?  **To me, fine.  I have no desire :)  To him probably lacking.  I do give in a couple times a week.

    9) How is s/he with LO?  **Awesome!

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature?  **Hmmm, I love his arms :)

    I have same anniversary. Happy late anniversary.
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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? Blind date through a friend.

    3) How long have you been together? Together 8.5 years married 3 years

    4) Where did you go on your first date?Bowling

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? It was anniversary went out to eat to Anthony's steak house brought ring out on dessert tray.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? That he is so blunt at times and doesn't think before talking.

    7) When is your anniversary? August 1, 2009.

    8) How's your sex life? Pretty good

    9) How is s/he with LO? He is really good with her.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? his smile.

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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married 3 years now

    2) Where did you meet your SO? Middle School.  We didn't start dating until we were 29 though.

    3) How long have you been together?  Since the very tail end of 2005, so nearly 7 years now

    4) Where did you go on your first date? Patriots game.  Squish the Fish, Jan 2006 (it was an LDR at that point, so the date was after we were a thing)

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? He clipped the ring in a tiny envelope to the dogs collar.  I joke that my dog proposed to me.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? He always has to be right, even when he isn't & he incessantly wiggles his foot.

    7) When is your anniversary? 06/06/09 (its actually part of my sn on here)

    8) How's your sex life? Hahaha. 

    9) How is s/he with LO? He's good now.  Left something to be desired in the early days, just wasn't familiar with itty bitty babies.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? His eyes...they are just like DS's

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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Engaged.

    2) Where did you meet your SO? Through friends.

    3) How long have you been together? Almost 3 years.

    4) Where did you go on your first date? Olive Garden and a movie.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? At Disneyland.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? That he can't clean up after himself.

    7) When is your anniversary? Dating anniversary- Oct 31

    8) How's your sex life? Not as much as he wants; more than I want ;)

    9) How is s/he with LO? He is great with her.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature?His stomach and his eyes.
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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? My best friend had a huge crush on him....yeah, we're not friends anymore...

    3) How long have you been together? 10 years, married 4

    4) Where did you go on your first date? Fazoli's. We were 17 lol.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?

    We went on a horse carriage ride to look at a Xmas light display. At the end of the ride he had a sign made out of Xmas lights asking me to marry him. Then he totally froze and didn't say anything for a good 10 minutes. It was full of awkwardness.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? Whenever we fight he turns into a 5 year old and gives me the silent treatment. Also he's incredibly lazy.

    7) When is your anniversary?  May

    8) How's your sex life? ha ha

    9) How is s/he with LO? He's doing much better now that DS is more interactive. He has zero patience though.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? His eyes. I was so happy that DS has them.

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? New years eve party in HS

    3) How long have you been together? 10 years on Aug. 10th...3years married

    4) Where did you go on your first date? County fair

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? On picnic

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? Just 1 thing? Well, if I have to pick just one.....not picking up after himself.

    7) When is your anniversary? May 9th

    8) How's your sex life? Non-existent right now

    9) How is s/he with LO? He is a great dad....and he's a lot more fun than I am. 

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? Eyes

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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? College

    3) How long have you been together? Since 2000

    4) Where did you go on your first date? Movies...on a double date with his friend (my ex-BF)

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? Standard, on one knee at home

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? He has to leave "everything out where he can see it"

    7) When is your anniversary? Sept 1

    8) How's your sex life? Currently, good. I actually have a sex drive again!

    9) How is s/he with LO? Beyond awesome. She likes him more than me.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? His eyes.  Long dark lashes, big bright blue eyes. Thankfully DD got those.


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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.)

    Married 

    2) Where did you meet your SO?

    Grad school 

    3) How long have you been together?

    Almost 7 years 

    4) Where did you go on your first date?

    Dinner at a hole-in-the-wall pub between our apartments.  

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?

    He proposed the day after Christmas on the beach inNJ.  I shut the box without looking at ring in it because I was afraid it would fall in the sand and we'd never find it.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?

    Oh so many things.  

    7) When is your anniversary?

    10.10.08 

    8) How's your sex life?

     Lacking. I have no idea how we'll make her a big sister at this rate. Maybe we'll start actually getting sleep soon. 

    9) How is s/he with LO?

    So cute. She adores him. He takes in the BOB for a long run every weekend and I get some alone time.  

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? 

    Does tall, dark & handsome count or do I need to be more specific?  More specific- I love his hair- its salt & pepper.  

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.)

    Married, 

    2) Where did you meet your SO?

    Jr year of high school 

    3) How long have you been together?

    6 years 

    4) Where did you go on your first date?

    To se Casanova 

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?

    Drew me flowers and wrote "will you marry me" on the back 

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?

    The way he opens bags 

    7) When is your anniversary?

    Aug 8 

    8) How's your sex life?

    With a 10 day old....non-existant 

    9) How is s/he with LO?

    Fantastic with both 

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature?

    Eyes, love his eyes. Followed close by arms 

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    1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.)

    2) Where did you meet your SO?

    3) How long have you been together?

    4) Where did you go on your first date?

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose?

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts?

    7) When is your anniversary?

    8) How's your sex life?

    9) How is s/he with LO?

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature?

    Married 5 years He took me to the golf course where we had our first date, but it was closed! Lol so we went to a near by cafe. When he got down on one knee I thought he was joking (he had done it before as a joke!) Then I saw the ring and knew it was for real! June 1st We r almost 7w pp and I'm still bleeding so its pretty dry. He is amazing! He changed every diaper in the hospital and is better at to her to sleep then I am! Blue eyes and long lashes! Even when we r together lasts complament him on them!
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  • 1) What's your status? Married. 4 years in November.

    2) Where did you meet your SO? Yahoo chat room actually

    3) How long have you been together? 6 years next month

    4) Where did you go on your first date? He took me to a party.

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? Mutual decision. No proposal.

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? He has a super short temper and is really forgetful.

    7) When is your anniversary? November 1st

    8) How's your sex life? Getting there.

    9) How is s/he with LO? He's great with LO but needs more patience.

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? The tan and the arms/shoulders.

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  • 1) What's your status? (Engaged, married, living together, etc.) Married

    2) Where did you meet your SO? At a softball game

    3) How long have you been together? 6 years

    4) Where did you go on your first date? To a Mexican restaurant and then to the movies - saw "Family Stone"

    5) If engaged or married, how did s/he propose? He asked me to come over for the weekend, and when I got to his house, there was a path of rose petals and candles...at the end of the path was the ring (and him, waiting to ask, of course) : )

    6) Is there anything about your SO that just drives you nuts? Yes. He acts like he has no common sense. Also, he really has a listening problem. Ex: Today I told him I had already gotten his dad a birthday card, but that I needed him to run and pick up some milk for DS - what does he do? Goes and buys another card and doesn't get any milk. I'm really not kidding when I say he just flat out doesn't listen.

    7) When is your anniversary? October 13, 2007

    8) How's your sex life? Eh, we still manage usually once a week...unfortunately we are both tired most of the time. But we try to make an effort, and it's still very enjoyable - just not as frequent.

    9) How is s/he with LO? For the most part, great! He can do everything that needs to be done, perfectly capable of taking care of DS without me around (he is practically a SAHD in the summer, he's a teacher).

    10) What's your SO's best physical feature? He has beautiful eyes and long eyelashes. I love them! And he's taller than me...I love that (I'm pretty tall, and all my ex-bf's were either same height as me or just a tad shorter).

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