maternity leave and FMLA confusion

bubble515

My HR dept is known to mess things up.   Im due in the fall and starting my leave from work the first of the month.  I will be home  over the 12 weeks, knowing that that I will not get paid for all of it.

 What exactly needs to get done? THis is what I have been told and want to make sure this is right..

 I filled out the FMLA- HR is keeping a copy/ nothing gets mailed out

I filled out a NJ family insurance form that starts once baby is born. 

I flled out a NJ temp disablity form that starts once baby is born. 

 

Is this right and also do I fill out a disability form BEFORE she is born to get those 4 weeks prior to the birth ( get it from dr?) and do I fill out a NJ family medical leave  in addition to the FMLA?