TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46 DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!! First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
Petra took the time to write a very clear detailed message and while you might not like what she wrote, even though she is right, telling her "you suck" is not supportive of your cause or of showing support for others on this board. I understand you are frustrated and feeling down about your situation, but so are the majority of us on this board.
Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1; BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13; BFP#2 11/2011, CP FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2 IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3 Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+) Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155 Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!
Petra took the time to write a very clear detailed message and while you might not like what she wrote, even though she is right, telling her "you suck" is not supportive of your cause or of showing support for others on this board. I understand you are frustrated and feeling down about your situation, but so are the majority of us on this board.
I gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought she was saying she sucked as a "funny"...
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46 DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!! First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
Oh no msnukem! I am sorry my tone wasnt conveyed well! I was joking! I totally agree with everything she said!
I could tell you were being tongue and cheek about it, it was pretty clear with the after it. That's the issue with texting & messaging, the message isn't always perceived the same by everyone..
Me 41 DH 46 Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12 ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!
I don't know how to put a smile icon so I made a winky face. I thought that would show I was joking. I feel terrible it didn't come off that way. I am so sorry!
I don't know how to put a smile icon so I made a winky face. I thought that would show I was joking. I feel terrible it didn't come off that way. I am so sorry!
Putting a winky face after "you suck" comes off as passive aggressive to me. That's the issue with not being able to convey messages clearly over text. But I appreciate your clarification, no need to feel terrible.
Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1; BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13; BFP#2 11/2011, CP FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2 IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3 Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+) Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155 Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!
Oh no msnukem! I am sorry my tone wasnt conveyed well! I was joking! I totally agree with everything she said!
You explained while I was typing. It was difficult to read your intent with your 2 posts. Sometimes it's hard to discern the tone of a mesage when it's just text.
Re: I think I am going to delete my rant below
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com
Petra took the time to write a very clear detailed message and while you might not like what she wrote, even though she is right, telling her "you suck" is not supportive of your cause or of showing support for others on this board. I understand you are frustrated and feeling down about your situation, but so are the majority of us on this board.
Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
BFP#2 11/2011, CP
FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!
I gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought she was saying she sucked as a "funny"...
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com
Petra was very kind in the way she responded to your recent posts, and she said a lot of things you needed to hear.
Were you trying to be funny when you said, "you suck?" Because it came off as disrespectful.
DD born 12.21.09, conceived w/ injects and IUI
TTC#2 since Nov 2011
BFP 2.6.12 m/c 6w5d | BFP 5.25.12 c/p
-Back to the RE-
3 medicated IUIs, all BFN
-Taking a break from treatment-
BFP 11.20.12 ~ EDD 7.28.13
My Chart
I could tell you were being tongue and cheek about it, it was pretty clear with the
after it. That's the issue with texting & messaging, the message isn't always perceived the same by everyone..
Me 41 DH 46 Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!
Putting a winky face after "you suck" comes off as passive aggressive to me. That's the issue with not being able to convey messages clearly over text. But I appreciate your clarification, no need to feel terrible.
Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
BFP#2 11/2011, CP
FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!
You explained while I was typing. It was difficult to read your intent with your 2 posts. Sometimes it's hard to discern the tone of a mesage when it's just text.
DD born 12.21.09, conceived w/ injects and IUI
TTC#2 since Nov 2011
BFP 2.6.12 m/c 6w5d | BFP 5.25.12 c/p
-Back to the RE-
3 medicated IUIs, all BFN
-Taking a break from treatment-
BFP 11.20.12 ~ EDD 7.28.13
My Chart
Reading this after the fact and just want to say that this is all such good information. I am glad I took the time to read it, thank you.
Yeah seriously - not every period is a frakking miscarriage. I'd been gritting my teeth through prior posts as well and not responding.