I originally wasn't going to write one, but circumstances have changed...
We
planned on having a water birth at a birth center, but their policy has
now changed and my insurance won't cover L&D. Now, we're having to
deliver at my local hospital. Our tour isn't until September, but based
on what "I know" about the hospital, I wanted to write a birth plan so
that Dr. and I are clear as far as what I want: a non-medicated natural
birth. I want to be firm in my desires, but not like a brat.
Any advice on what exactly should/should not be included? How specific should I be?
**I want to be sure to stay away from negative wording**
Re: i know, i know, another birth plan post...
Don't my it too long. No one is going to read a long birth plan.
Here's mine:
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? We prefer to have a natural labor, without artificial induction or influence.
? We are aware that we have the option of medications if needed. However, we appreciate you not offering them. Please know that if medications are desired, we will ask for them.
? We prefer staff/nurses who support our natural childbirth goals.
? We would like access to a Jacuzzi tub, Squat Bar, and Mirror.
? We have received permission from our doctor for a Hep-Lock instead of an IV.
? We would like to stay mobile throughout labor, with intermittent monitoring.
? We would prefer to not be asked pain management questions.
? We request the freedom to labor and birth however feels most comfortable.
? We would appreciate not being told when and how to push, but would rather birth instinctively.
? We prefer to risk a tear rather than have an episiotomy
? We would like immediate skin-to-skin contact with our baby after he is born.
? We will delay cord clamping and cutting for at least 5 minutes, until the cord has ceased to pulse.
? We request postponing newborn procedures for 2 hours, and that Connor be able to bathe him for the first time.
We appreciate you helping us have the birth experience that we desire for our baby and ourselves.
HTH!