January 2013 Moms

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I heard about this video but did not see it until today.  This just makes my stomach turn with anger. Daycares need to be much more careful with other people's children!

https://thegrio.com/2012/07/23/9-year-old-boy-attacks-toddlers-at-daycare/#48291484

 

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Re: *Warning* if you open this post prepare to be really upset

  • UGH no words.. other than wanting punch that kid in the face
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  • "Oh he is just a normal child" . . What?!? That isn't normal to me at all.

    Sounds like that day care needs to be investigated especially since the father of the one child went in and attached a child he thought was the problem. Something is seriously wrong there!

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    UGH no words.. other than wanting punch that kid in the face

    It's just sickning!

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  • imagejessicabalthis:
    UGH no words.. other than wanting punch that kid in the face

    It makes me wonder where that child learned to act like that though? I'm not saying a 9-year old shouldn't know better but where did he see that or who was be intimating?

  • That is so disgusting. Those poor babies. That is every working parents worst nightmare. It is appalling that it was caught on tape, but who knows how long it went on before it was stopped. That 9 year old should not be around younger children or ever out of the supervision of adults. He clearly needs a lot more help that whatever "medicine" he is currently taking.
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  • first of all, that kid clearly has issues, and should NOT be interacting w/ other children, a parent or daycare teacher ShOULDA clearly known that!! can you even imagine watching that and seeing that little girl and going "hey...thats my daughter" omg...the amount of anger would have no end!!! yet another reason im glad to be a SAHM!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • That is HORRIBLE!!!
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  • (Thank you OP for the warning!)

    This is so reminiscent of an 80's documentary called "Child of Rage". I'm going to guess that little boy (9 year old) was badly abused in his toddler years, making him incapable of understanding love and tender emotions. Abuse at very young years can result in children that act out violently toward children and adults, and are in need of deep psychological care. The effects can be reversed, however they need to be aggressively treated as those children become very dangerous (think 90's film The Good Son).  Thank God the toddlers in this situation didn't suffer any worse wounds than split lips and bite marks, and this was caught so they are removed from care. The daycare needs to be shut down, however that boy can't be placed in ANY other daycare. He will continue to act out violently, regardless of the cause, until he is treated aggressively with therapy.  It is stories like this that make me reassess how fortunate I am to be able to be a SAHM. 

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  • ... I am in such shock!  Such inappropriate behavior!  Didn't anyone ever tell him that's not how to treat people?  It's like he's 'trying out' violence to see what it's like.  He needs some serious help, and discipline.  Those Daycare workers get a big ol' F in my book.  SO not ok. You're supposed to be watching the children.
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  • "Oh, he bad ... He take med-cin  e'ry day."

    How are these people allowed children...?

    I'm sure he watches this happen at home "e'ry day" and thinks its completely normal to beat girls. He should be taken away and put into a responsibly strict environment, and that daycare and every one like it needs to be closed. Unfortunately, the world is full of them, and as long as there are people to fill them, they'll stay open.  

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  • I couldn't watch more than the first 30 seconds or so. It's horrible.
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  • I hope that CPS opens up a case on that little boy because he is clearly being abused at home. If he doesn't get help now it scares me to think of what he'll become when he gets older. But I'm not holding my breath for any help for him.

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  • If I saw that kid punching my child, no doubt I'd probably take the same action like that dad did! And the aunt says he's a bad kid and fights and then he's normal and takes medicine? Wrong answer lady. If my child ended up with serious injuries, you'd bet I'd sue the daycare and the family.
  • Holy ***. That's all that I can say. I understand being angry at that kid, but holy *** what has he been through to be so violent at such a young age? He was obviously abused at home, and probably still is. That situation just sucks all the way around.
     
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    imagejessicabalthis:
    UGH no words.. other than wanting punch that kid in the face

    It makes me wonder where that child learned to act like that though? I'm not saying a 9-year old shouldn't know better but where did he see that or who was be intimating?

    Kids learn these things somewhere. Whether it's at home or on TV, that kid needs some major discipline!!

    I was almost in tears watching him beat those little girls who can't defend themselves. Guess there's not much supervision at that daycare! I would be absolutely livid if that was my child he was beating up.

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  • This sort of thing makes me want to 100% be a SAHM... I've been torn about what I'm going to do once the twins arrive, but it is things like this - it would never happen if I watched my own children.

    My mom was a working mom and had to switch my daycare due to this child, a few years older than me when I was 2, that kept biting me.  The daycare told her the first time, and they said they told the other child's parents about the incident to help it stop.  It got to a point they stopped telling my mom when the boy bit me but she would find the bite marks or evidence and eventually had to move me.  If it weren't the 80's, I'm sure someone would've been charged or sued...   

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  • How in the hell could the daycare provider just ignore that!?
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  • What I want to know is why they didn't respond to the little girl screaming at least! the little girl that he drop kicked didn't even flinch when he was beating her which makes me think that he had be doing it to her for a while and she was used to it....this is why i will never put my child in daycare..... I feel horrible for the parents who have seen things like this and have no choice other than day care, how scary :(

     

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