Thanks for the sound machine recommendation! I will admit I was skeptical because I thought the lullaby sounds CD and fan would have to be equivalent, but I gave the sound machine a try and it definitely is better. The ocean sound is AWESOME! She is still a crappy sleeper, but you can walk by her door now, squeaky floors and all with no worries and I don't have to worry as much about my DH who is incapable of whispering.
Anyway just wanted to say I was wrong and thanks.
This is the one I got. Highly recommend it.
https://www.amazon.com/HoMedics-SS-3000-Soundspa-Lullaby-White/dp/B000QTSW64
It has a projector too which is great for distracting her when she is in overtired melt down mode.
Re: Thanks jonnygurl76!