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It's happening again - another m/c

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Re: It's happening again - another m/c

  • Mitzi BishiMitzi Bishi

    This brings tears to my eyes. It's absolutely awful to not be able to get answers from the doctors and to continually have loses like this. I'm truly sorry you're going through so much. 

    I hope you have a break from the monotony and that the rest of your path to parenthood isn't as difficult. You will be in my thoughts.  

    (Live in Europe) TTC since 1/2010
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  • lynn0926lynn0926 member
    My heart is breaking for you! I am so incredibly sorry. (((hugs)))
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  • 07may0707may07
    May--I am so so sorry.  I hate this for you.  I am heartbroken for you and YH.  Sending you tons of ((HUGS))
    *P/SAIFW* TTC since 1/08 Clomid, 2 IUIs, 4 IVFs, FET 7 losses Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Bella2u07Bella2u07 member
    I am so sorry May.  ::BIG HUGS::
    TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS
    7 IUIs = All BFNs
    2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN

    2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
    May IVF #3 = c/p
    June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
    July FET #2 = BFN
    Aug FET #3 = BFN
    Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
    Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
    Dec FET #4 = BFN

    2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
    May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
    June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
    July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
    Sept FET #6 = TBD
    **PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
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  • MelicakesMelicakes member
    I am so very sorry Sweetie :( Huge Hugs
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  • Denae'sTTCDenae'sTTC member

    Im so sorry hun. My heart breaks for you and your family. This happened to my good friend a few times as she also had a few snow babies. She didn't want to just leave them in storage so she looked into surrogacy. Her sister actually ended up carrying her frosties and now she has a beautiful son. Your dream of becoming a mom can still be a reality for you. I hope all works out for you in any way you decide to go...I'll be praying for you.... 

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  • naybirdnaybird
    I'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. Do what you need to feel better, and take care of yourself. IF is so unfair.

    Big hugs
    Renee- 37 DH - Chad - 39
    2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
    3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks 
    5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
    D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
    Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
    5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
    FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
    1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
    IVF - May - BFN
    6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
    9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
    10/13 - BFP!!
    It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!

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  • jcathjcath member
    May - I just have no words.  I am so very very sorry.  I will be keeping you and your dh in my thoughts.
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  • may2806may2806 member
    imageDenae'sTTC:

    Im so sorry hun. My heart breaks for you and your family. This happened to my good friend a few times as she also had a few snow babies. She didn't want to just leave them in storage so she looked into surrogacy. Her sister actually ended up carrying her frosties and now she has a beautiful son. Your dream of becoming a mom can still be a reality for you. I hope all works out for you in any way you decide to go...I'll be praying for you.... 

     

    DH's sister had actually offered to be a GC for us but her doctor told her no because she had already had 3 c/s. Then I had another friend volunteer and it was the same thing - she had also had 3 c/s so her doctor told her no. My sister had a late loss so she is not really a good candidate (and she hasn't offered). It is something I've though about but I'm not sure it would work for us. Paying someone would be crazy expensive. 

    Thanks for everyone's messages. I really appreciate it. 

    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
    DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
    10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
    2 frosties but don't know what's next
    FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
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  • koynkoyn member
    I am so so sorry.  I can't imagine what you are going through right now.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • kekiskekis member
    Just popping in to say well ***.  It sucks to try & try & try and get handed the crap card every time.  Lots of love to you.  Take care for now and figure out the future in a little while.
    Todd & Kristin, 3.10.07

    After 5.5 years of loss, heartbreak, and empty arms, our dreams were fulfilled through the beautiful, selfless gift of adoption. We are amazingly blessed!

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  • dancinaggiedancinaggie member
    I'm so, so sorry.  Sending (((huge hugs))).
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  • SweetDahliaSweetDahlia
    I am so very sorry for your loss. I just don't understand. Lots of hugs.
    PAIF and SAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC since 2007
    6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
    IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
    IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
    Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
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