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jlcrane78jlcrane78 member
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Hi Ladies,

I'm not really sure where I belong just yet, but I want to establish a relationship on this board because I think this fits right now.  

A little backstory.  DH and I have been trying to get pregnant for almost 6 years.  I just completed my last IVF, which ended in a miscarriage at 7/8 weeks.  (I was 8w1d by IVF timelines but only measuring just over 7 when the doctor confirmed a miscarriage.)

I'm feeling pretty helpless.  We are no longer pursuing medical treatments, and we no longer have the money to adopt.  I think I'll ultimately be CFNBC, but I'm not ready to commit to that title yet.  So here I am.  And just as the rest of you are hoping, I'm really hoping this journey ends on the happy side of things.  I'm in desperate search of my rainbow baby right now.

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  • meeblebeemeeblebee member
    So sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  I hope you're able to find some comfort on this board.  There is a wealth of knowledge in the women here.

    Lucky to be in love with my best friend. BFP #1 3/8/12 Natural MC 4/6/12 EDD 11/20/12
    BFP #2 6/5/12 Natural MC 6/19/12 EDD 2/14/13
    BFP #3 9/23/12 D&C 11/7/12 EDD 6/7/13
    RPL Panel on 11/7...all normal.
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  • Smash2009Smash2009 member
    I'm so sorry for all you've been through. This board has been a wonderful source of info, laughs and comfort for me....I hope you have the same experience. BIG ((HUGS))
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  • MeganS313MeganS313 member

    Welcome to the board, but I am so sorry you find yourself here.  This board has some amazing women who have been a tremendous help to me.  |((HUGS))

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  • MrsCisco222MrsCisco222
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon!
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  • luvmyducksluvmyducks member
    So sorry for your loss and your IF struggle.  Best of luck to you and welcome to the board.  Please check out our blog if you haven't already.  The link is in the board description.
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  • ravenclaw1ravenclaw1 member
    so sorry to hear that. I hope you and your H find comfort, and that your rainbow comes for you
    BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
    Back to normal business December 2012
    BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
    It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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  • mikeANDjen448mikeANDjen448 member
    I'm so so sorry for your loss and your struggles.  My heart breaks for the position you are in.  Just know that you are not alone and we are all here for you.  I hope you find much support with us here.  big big (((HUGS)))!!!

    TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

    RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

     BFP #1 7/20/11 M/C 7/25/11. BFP #2 11/29/11 M/C 12/21/11

    I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

    BFP #3 10/27/12 EDD: 7/6/13

    Baby Emma arrived at 35 weeks by surprise on June 3rd, 2013!!


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    BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

    Beta #1 19DPO: 213 Beta #2 21DPO: 674

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  • rlajamberlajambe member

    I'm so sorry for you loss.  Weclome to the board.

    We are an open ear while you try to decide what is next.

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    BFP #1 - 01/12/12, EDD 09/12/12, Medical Induction @ 21 weeks 05/03/12
    BFP #2 - 10/30/12, EDD 07/04/13, Natural m/c @ 5 weeks 11/01/12
    BFP #3 - 02/07/13, EDD 10/12/13
    Dx: Incompotent Cervix

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  • Adam2010Adam2010 member
    Welcome to the board- sorry for your loss and that you have to be here. I hope you can find peace and comfort here- these ladies are amazing :) Sending you giant hugs and FX that one day you will have your rainbow baby!
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    TTC #2 Since October 2011
    RE testing results: DH- normal ME- DX:PCOS and One copy of MTHFR gene
    IUI#1 Sept/Oct 2012-Follistim, Ovidrel, Metformin, Baby Asprin, Lovenox, Crinone, and Neevo Beta 10/24=BFN
    No 2nd IUI but instead TI with Metformin, Baby Asprin, Neevo and Prometrium
    BFP #4 5/4/13-EDD 1/19/14- grow little one, grow!
    Beta #1@15DPO HCG-95, progesterone-25 Beta #4@24DPO HCG-2498, progesterone-30, 1st U/S 6mm,133BPM 2nd U/S 1.6cm, 167 BPM
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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    I'm so sorry you find yourself here sweetie but welcome and I hope you find comfort and support here. The ladies are wonderful. 
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
    S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • cg0112358cg0112358 member
    Welcome to the board, I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of T&Ps for you that you get the rainbow baby you've been searching for.
    DS1: 8/3/10, DD1: 8/17/13, DD2: 8/13/15
    Twins lost to due to partial molar pregnancy: September 2011 
    ~~PAL, PgAL Always Welcome~~
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  • AnoraStarAnoraStar
    I am so sorry for your loss :( Welcome to the board.
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  • April!April! member
    I'm sorry for your loss and your troubles. This group has been wonderful. I hope you're able to find some support here. (((HUGS)))
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    BFP #2 9/5/2012 -- Born 5/20/2013 -- Welcome, rainbow baby!
    BFP #1 1/24/12 -- No HB 2/16/12 -- Misoprostol 3/10/12
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  • AcojenAcojen member
    So sorry for your loss and all you have been through.  Welcome.
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  • eroplaneeroplane member
    I am so sorry for your loss and struggle with IF. Welcome. Big hugs. 
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    IVF/ICSI #1 July/August 2011 BFP # 1 - B/G twins - preterm labor/cervical incompetency @ 23w3d FET # 1 March/April 2012 - BFN 5/1/12 FET # 2 July 2012 - BFN 7/24 FET # 3 BFP! EDD 5/15/13 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Pregnancy Ticker
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  • Mrs.E.07Mrs.E.07
    I'm so sorry for your loss and for your struggle. Welcome to the board, the ladies here are really great. ((hugs))

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
    Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. welcome to the board!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • RedPhoenix625RedPhoenix625
    I am so terribly sorry for your struggle and for your loss.  You are welcome to stay here as long as you like.  I hope things turn out okay for you.  This is so hard.  (((HUGS)))
    PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
    TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
    2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
    2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
    2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
    IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
    So lost.
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  • LovenizLoveniz member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. The ladies here are very supportive and caring.
    TTC #1 Since Oct 2011
    BFP #1 4/29/12 m/c 5/18/12 at 6w2d
    BFP #2 8/28/12 EDD 5/10/13 MC 9/22/12 at 6w4d
    BFP #3 12/31/12 EDD 9/12/13

    Me Dx: DOR   DH: all tests normal
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  • Ana0927Ana0927 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    I am so sorry for your loss and your struggles. I pray one day you will have a baby to call your own. ((hugs))
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  • centralperkcentralperk member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some support and people you can talk to.
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    BFP #1 6.9.12 EDD 2.16.13 Ended in emergency surgery due to an ectopic 6.23.13
    BFP #2 9.6.13  Rainbow born 5.22.13
    BFP# 3 8.28.14 EDD 5.1.15  2nd u/s revealed Twins   m/c 9.21.14 
    BFP # 4 11.27.14 EDD 8.5.15  1 perfect bean @ 6 weeks


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