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ravenclaw1ravenclaw1 member
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hi ladies

I didn't ever hope to be joining this group, but unfortunately lost our first baby a week ago tomorrow at 8w3d. It's been a really rough week, but I'm trying to look forward. Right now I'm doing that by spending too much money at Target, reorganizing and decorating my laundry room, and watching a combo of marathons of The Gilmore Girls, Harry Potter, and The Food Network.... but I digress. 

I have my first follow up appointment with my OB on July 30th, at which point I hope to find out when we can start TTC again. I look forward to chatting with you ladies here, and hope I get ok news at my next appointment. 

BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
Back to normal business December 2012
BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    So sorry for you loss sweetie. Welcome to the board, and HP FTW! I thought there was a reason I liked your SN :)
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
    S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • poohbear033poohbear033 member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your loss. This board is ful of wonderful women. The blog is a great resource as well.
    Wedding 08/08/08

    BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11

    Clomid 50mg BFP #2 09/21/11 EDD 05/29/11 Chemical Pregnancy 10/4/11

    BFP #3 4/19/13 Beta1- 106 Beta2- 524 Beta3- 3500 EDD 12/22/13 LO born 12/31/13

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  • vflipovflipo member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you're able to TTC soon and you're not here for too long.
    I married a ginger.
    m/c 12/25/09 (5w5d) mm/c D&C 4/9/10 (11w1d) Take home baby 2/22/11
    My boobies belong to cour10e
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  • buckeyebaby814buckeyebaby814 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  I hope your stay is short!  BTW- I love your some e-card!

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    CFNBC after 8 losses and IF || History || My Angel Babies

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  • ct103ct103 member

    I'm so sorry for your loss, and I'm sorry you have to be here. I really hope you get good news at your follow up. 

    Welcome to the board. 

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  • DCWJesDCWJes member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    I have short term memory loss. Do not take it personally if I do not remember you right away.
    No longer trying to conceive at all.
    BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
    BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
     Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
     Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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  • AcojenAcojen member
    Hello and welcome.  I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • LovenizLoveniz member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    TTC #1 Since Oct 2011
    BFP #1 4/29/12 m/c 5/18/12 at 6w2d
    BFP #2 8/28/12 EDD 5/10/13 MC 9/22/12 at 6w4d
    BFP #3 12/31/12 EDD 9/12/13

    Me Dx: DOR   DH: all tests normal
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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    so sorry for your loss. welcome to the board!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    I'm so sorry you find yourself here, but you've definitely come to the right place. You'll find lots of support here. I should mention that the board isn't usually filled with so much drama, so don't let any of the craziness scare you off. :)
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. It is full of amazing women and I hope you find the support you're looking for here.
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  • jackiemaryjackiemary member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope you find the caring support you are looking for here! It is a great group of ladies!
    Jackie (26) & Josiah (28) married December 27, 2009
    TTC #1 since August 2011
    BFP #1 3/27/12, EDD 12/9/12, Natural miscarriage at 5w2d on 4/7/12
    Diagnosed with PCOS 7/1/13
    Pursuing adoption from Ethiopia 7/2013-currently on the wait list! 
    BFP #2 9/16/13, EDD 5/28/14 Beta #1: 363, Beta #2:876, @ 7w1d Heartbeat:147
    Team Pink!



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  • eroplaneeroplane member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome. 
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    IVF/ICSI #1 July/August 2011 BFP # 1 - B/G twins - preterm labor/cervical incompetency @ 23w3d FET # 1 March/April 2012 - BFN 5/1/12 FET # 2 July 2012 - BFN 7/24 FET # 3 BFP! EDD 5/15/13 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Pregnancy Ticker
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  • RedPhoenix625RedPhoenix625
    Hi Ravenclaw.  I responded to your intro post over on the MPL board and am glad to welcome you here as well.  Sorry you have to be on either of these boards.  Both are very supportive but this one has more traffic, so I hope you feel at home in this community. 
    PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
    TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
    2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
    2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
    2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
    IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
    So lost.
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  • uneek1323uneek1323 member
    I'm so sorry that you have to be here, but welcome you with big hugs.
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry you find yourself here.

    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    Welcome, I am sorry for your loss. Keeping busy is a great idea but, you still need to process your loss. GL at your appointment and I love your SN.
    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • rlajamberlajambe member

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

    Just be careful about "retail therapy", it's often more expensive than actual therapy.

    {{hugs}}

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    BFP #2 - 10/30/12, EDD 07/04/13, Natural m/c @ 5 weeks 11/01/12
    BFP #3 - 02/07/13, EDD 10/12/13
    Dx: Incompotent Cervix

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  • meeblebeemeeblebee member
    So sorry for your loss.  Hope your follow up goes as well as can be expected.

    Lucky to be in love with my best friend. BFP #1 3/8/12 Natural MC 4/6/12 EDD 11/20/12
    BFP #2 6/5/12 Natural MC 6/19/12 EDD 2/14/13
    BFP #3 9/23/12 D&C 11/7/12 EDD 6/7/13
    RPL Panel on 11/7...all normal.
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  • cg0112358cg0112358 member
    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your lose and hope your stay here is short.
    DS1: 8/3/10, DD1: 8/17/13, DD2: 8/13/15
    Twins lost to due to partial molar pregnancy: September 2011 
    ~~PAL, PgAL Always Welcome~~
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  • lindsayanne14lindsayanne14 member
    So sorry for your loss and welcome, I hope you find comfort and support on this board...I know I have!

    BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
    BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
    BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
    BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15

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  • LuvWestCoastLuvWestCoast
    Sorry for your loss. I'm sorry you have to come here too, I don't think any of us wanted to be here. I hope your appointment goes well.
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  • GraceInCAGraceInCA member
    Very sorry for your loss. 

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  • luvmyducksluvmyducks member

    Sorry for your loss and welcome. GL at your appt!

    Also, if you haven't already, please check out our blog. The link is at the top of our page in the board description. 

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