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asglover514asglover514 member
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Hi ladies, as promised an intro now that I'm awake again.

So FI and I started dating 2 weeks before I graduated High School, we're both young, 19 and FI is going on 22 in Dec. Looking at that in numbers makes me feel really young. Anyway I'm currently going to college online, and it's the best thing ever because it gives me a lot of free time, and I can do it easily even while pg.

We got pg with our first by surprise last summer that resulted in a natural m/c at 12 wks, the day before the Dr told me to come in to schedule a D&C. He decided that since it was my first pg to give it 2 weeks from the time of no h/b detected to pass naturally before doing a D&C to reduce scar tissue. H/b actually stopped at 6 weeks but we didn't find out till my first appt. at 10 wks. It sounds bad but this is around the time we got engaged. Our relationship is a cliche, love at first date. We had already talked about getting married, he said he wanted to wait until I was 21 so I can legally drink at my own wedding and even now that's what we're doing.

We got pg with Aaron right away after our first m/c, after we got the BFP I started bleeding. I had a rather large ScH, bleeding stopped but a little further down the line I was sent for extra u/s for a dark spot on his stomach, all was fine until memorial day, that was the last time I felt him move. He was so active and it suddenly came to a stop. I brushed it off as maybe he was asleep, I had an appt. the next day. My appt. confirmed there was no heartbeat. I was induced on the 30th and gave birth on the 31st. He was cremated and came home the following Monday.

Right now, FI and I are staying with my parents because I left work after my bleeding episode, I was told to reduce strain on my body. I go back to work at a new job on the 1st for a new cupcake place that is opening up here, and start my classes again on the 13th. FI has been guaranteed an assistant manager job where he works. Once we're back on our feet we'll be getting our own place.

Glad to be here with you ladies. 

Stephanie Lynn 
*BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member
    I'm glad to see you over here. I hope your stay is short and sweet!
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member

    Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you find this place a good place for support and that when you're ready to start TTC again that is happens quickly for you. Smile 

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  • wymm37wymm37 member
    Welcome, I'm so sorry for your losses.
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  • sammer818sammer818 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
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    ~All AL always welcome~

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  • Julesg22Julesg22 member

    Your story breaks my heart...I can not imagine what you have been through. I hope you are finding comfort and strength during this difficult time. I hope you know we are all here for you. If you need anything, don't hesitate to ask!

    Prayers & Hugs! 

    Never in our arms, forever in our hearts......
    **Missed m/c May 11th, EDD 12/8/12, 10 weeks, M/C naturally**
    **TTC since Sept. 2011**
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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    Thank you for all the welcomes. Wickedsugar I'm so excited about my cupcake job. It's GiGi's if anyone has heard of it :)
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
    S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • cg0112358cg0112358 member
    ((big hugs)) I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board, I hope your stay here is short.
    DS1: 8/3/10, DD1: 8/17/13, DD2: 8/13/15
    Twins lost to due to partial molar pregnancy: September 2011 
    ~~PAL, PgAL Always Welcome~~
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