i have never intented to ever ever ever offend anyone. i am an aunt to a micropreemie so i understand somewhat the struggles some of you go through. of course i can never fully get it and i am not trying to belittle or undermine what you wonderful ladies do every day with your beautiful babies. my posts have never been intented rudely at all. so again, i am sorry if i offended anyone as it was never my intention. i appreciate the advice everyone has given me on a regular basis and i hope that can continue and that someday i can give some advice to someone else becasue of what i learn and what you ladies teach me. so please don't think i'm this horrible person, because i'm not. i pray daily for every mom on this board (even if you don't post or i don't know your name) and for your babies to continue to grow and thrive in this world. please know i always have had good intentions and nothing i've said has been from a bad place, it's ignorance on my part for not thinking before i 'speak'.