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Some days..

VikingQueenVikingQueen member
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I get a little sad when I think about how long it will be before I even have a chance at having a baby..

I'll get through it though.. I've gotten through the past 4 years.. I guess I can get through another however long it takes to meet Mr. Right and have babies.. at least I know that I will have the right man and that my babies will have an amazing daddy compared to what my kids could have had with C... Just sucks cause all I ever wanted to be was a momma.

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  • centralperkcentralperk member

    I'm new but I think we all go through periods of sadness and get tired of the endless waiting for the next step in life. Here is hoping that you meet a really amazing guy.

    Those cookies are too cute. 

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    BFP #2 9.6.13  Rainbow born 5.22.13
    BFP# 3 8.28.14 EDD 5.1.15  2nd u/s revealed Twins   m/c 9.21.14 
    BFP # 4 11.27.14 EDD 8.5.15  1 perfect bean @ 6 weeks


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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    ((((((hugs)))))) I had given up finding Mr. Right & then on a blind date with another guy I met my now DH who was on a date with someone else. 6 years later & married for 5 here we are. It will happen for you. Probably when you least expect it. it will be so worth the wait when you find the right guy. & thanks for the cookies!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • klbowieklbowie member

    I am so sorry.  I only imagine how you are feeling.  Sometimes life sucks but at least you know not having kids with C is best.  I am sorry you had to go through all the crap with him.  (((HUGS)))

    BFP#1 02/19/12 missed mc 03/30/12 1st D&C 05/16/12 2nd D&C 08/17/12 
    BFP #2 06/26/13 EDD 2/26/14 Hoping for my rainbow baby!
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  • Smash2009Smash2009 member
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    {Hugs} You will be a great mom someday with a guy that treats you right. Smile

    Thanks for the cookies.

    This! Some lucky guy is going to marry you and be an awesome hubby and dad, and no doubt you'll be an awesome mom! ((hugs)) 

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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    thanks ladies. Y'all always know how to make me feel better. I don't know what I would do without you all ::smooches::
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  • cg0112358cg0112358 member
    ((big hugs)) I know you've had a lot going on lately... Lots of T&Ps that things in your life start moving in a positive direction, starting with school this fall :)
    DS1: 8/3/10, DD1: 8/17/13, DD2: 8/13/15
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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    Hugs

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

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  • LSzwayaLSzwaya member
    Aw, VQ. You'll be a GREAT momma and when it happens, you will just tell yourself it was and he was worth the wait. ((Hugs))
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

    All ALers welcome! 
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  • Adam2010Adam2010 member
    Even though you are having a rough day, I love your positive attitude about meeting Mr. Right and him being an awesome dad! Sending big hugs your way! I know you will make an amazing momma one day!
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    No 2nd IUI but instead TI with Metformin, Baby Asprin, Neevo and Prometrium
    BFP #4 5/4/13-EDD 1/19/14- grow little one, grow!
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    (((HUGS)))
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    TTC no sooner than November 2014
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    Hugs
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    BFP #1 EDD 08/07/11 DS born 07/27/11 Welcome Mr. Smiley!
    BFP #2 05/28/12 EDD 02/03/13 Natural M/C 07/14/12 10w6d
    BFP #3 10/02/12 EDD 06/11/13 Please stick baby! Stick!

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  • funny bunnyfunny bunny member

    Your kids are gonna be the luckiest, and that man - he'll be perfect.

    No doubt about it! 

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    BFP#1:Dec.1.11 EDD:Aug.09.12 MC:Jan.11.12 (9WK5D)-Natural
    BFP#2:Apr.18.12 EDD:Dec.21.12 MC:May.1.12 (6WK3D)-D&C
    BFP#3:Sep.12.12 - Suspected CP | BFP#4:Dec.1.12 - Suspected CP
    BFP#5: Dec.26.12 EDD:Sep.10.13 MC:Jan.7.13 (4WK6D)-Natural
    BFP#6: Jun.11.13 EDD:Feb.23.13 Beta: #1=8000 #2=24532 US@6wk2d showed 7wk2d size with 143BPM HR * NT US@12wk6d looked good. A/S passed with flying colors and our team color is Blue! *Grow my little Pamplemousse*!!!
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