I am pregnant with our first child. I've always wanted two children. DH only wants one. I guess it was always my hope that I would get pregnant easily, and I would be able to convince him to have another. It didn't quite work out that way, but at the same time we now have 11 frosties just sitting there. DH is concerned about our ages (by the time we have the baby I'll be 43 & he'll be 47), finances and quality of life as we get older. I know he has a point, and I am totally open to the possibility of one and done.
I'm just wondering for those of you who have 2,
*Did it take some thinking to decide on 2?
*Did you decide on 2 before you got pg with your first, or did you wait until after you had your first?
*Was your DH on board with 2, or did he need convincing?
*Now that you have 2, do you wish you had stuck with being one and done?
*If you're not comfortable answering that, how much more difficult is it having 2 vs 1?
*Do you and your DH both work FT?