welll since my last post we have figured this out...my husband didnt want to talk w his exwife about his oldest child who is the one who is haveing problems....well to come to find out she never gave cutody to my inlaws just the right to take of her schooling and dr app now that all going to change since they are not doing things in her best intrest and if she acts out she just needs talked to well her talking to let my middle daughter who is 7 getting bruisesand her out of our house and sent back to her grandparents....so leading to now we had a meeting w her mom and have it all set up where she is taken out of her inviroment for which she knows bc she acts out to get her way you basicly looking at a 3-4 year old in a 15 yeard old so in a couple of weeks before school starts we are haveing her move in w us she will have a new dr new thariapist and will be on meds like she was suppose to have done but her grandparents have done everything they should not be doing and just made her act out worse so new school as well she will not have any phone/comuter use untill she can show her behavior and maturity can improve both her dad and i and her bio mom have come to this agreement so now we r relaxed and waiting to deal w her and her grandparents the day they find out she comes here just shy of 2 weeks before school we and in 2 weeks my husband will have all rigthts back he had some but not what he needs to get done so till then i am worry free some what and will hope and pray the next 3 years she changes for the better for her sake
Re: we have some releif.....
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I am assuming you are on your phone but we honestly have no idea what you are talking about because several words are misspelled/wrong word and there is no punctuation. And I do not remember your backstory at all. If you clarify we can comment.
Um...so are you saying that the grandparents weren't doing what they were supposed to be doing when they had her? And that the grandparents never were given legal custody; just the right to pick her up from school and take her to doctor's appointments? And the grandparents were not giving her the prescribed medication from the therapist? You and dad and birth mom have come to a resolution? The three of you agreed that you and dad will now have custody and she will get the therapy and the meds she needs? So now you're more comfortable and relaxed? Did I get it?
That's what I got out of it. If that's right, then I'm glad for you guys, and for the child especially.
It may be a rough transition having her stay with you guys, but it sounds like you have support from the BM, and a therapist to help her work through her issues. Best of luck, and I hope you are able to get her on the right track.