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Well Crap...

MissLissy92MissLissy92
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I refuse to delete this thread, but I will no longer be responding because apparently you "ladies" have nothing better to do than pick at people lower on the food chain. Call me anything you like in the comments, it's your thread now. 

Sometimes I'm pretty sure I don't have the common sense God gave a rock. I'm 19, and have two boys under 3. They are my entire universe. Their "sperm donor" BD is not involved at all. For their entire lives it's been just me and them, but now I'm pregnant again. I don't know what I'm going to do. Some dark part of my mind is afraid. Afraid of the judgement that comes from having children by different fathers, afraid of the stigma attached to single parents, and afraid that my family will be divided as soon as the kids figure out they're different. Every once in awhile I just get this sense of, well, overwhelming panic. What am I going to do? I feel like such a stupid kid sometimes, and I know that's how my mother is going to treat me once I tell her. Part of me wants to scream. I'm an adult! I made an adult decision and now I'm facing adult consequences! But since I'm living with her right now she has apparently regressed me back to 16 in her own mind. I have to tread so lightly around her, and i'm sick of it. 

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  • scout426scout426 member
    I'm getting twitchy with nothing but mean things to say.   But I can't use the type of language when replying to a child
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  • Snow__White__QueenSnow__White__Queen member

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    Sometimes I'm pretty sure I don't have the common sense God gave a rock. I'm 19, and have two boys under 3. They are my entire universe. Their "sperm donor" BD is not involved at all. For their entire lives it's been just me and them, but now I'm pregnant again. I don't know what I'm going to do. Some dark part of my mind is afraid. Afraid of the judgement that comes from having children by different fathers, afraid of the stigma attached to single parents, and afraid that my family will be divided as soon as the kids figure out they're different. Every once in awhile I just get this sense of, well, overwhelming panic. What am I going to do? I feel like such a stupid kid sometimes, and I know that's how my mother is going to treat me once I tell her. Part of me wants to scream. I'm an adult! I made an adult decision and now I'm facing adult consequences! But since I'm living with her right now she has apparently regressed me back to 16 in her own mind. I have to tread so lightly around her, and i'm sick of it. 

    Do you mean that they will have different fathers? Or is it the same one for all 3? 

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    I call BS. MUD
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  • FyreFlyeRushFyreFlyeRush member

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    I call BS. MUD

    Ditto. 

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  • MissLissy92MissLissy92

    I didn't sleep with the *** father of my first two again. I wuldn't go near that thing in a million years. Thank you for assuming that. It's really insulting. 

     The condom failed. I have a latex allergy so we were using one of the other brands that I now know is crappy. 

    I have no idea what MUD is, but I'm going to assume it's insulting.  

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    I didn't sleep with the *** father of my first two again. I wuldn't go near that thing in a million years. Thank you for assuming that. It's really insulting. 

     The condom failed. I have a latex allergy so we were using one of the other brands that I now know is crappy. 

    I have no idea what MUD is, but I'm going to assume it's insulting.  

     

    What the *** are you doing even having sex!?! 2 kids, no baby daddy, and still in your teens one would think to use multiple forms of birth control.  Your mom is completely wrong for treating you like a 16 year old when clearly you have the intelligence of a 12 year old.  

     

    And this has to be mudd 

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  • KTdiditKTdidit member
    I call MUD for sure. First of all why would someone make a post and state she won't be back to respond? Then admit that she has zero common sense, which is obvious.
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  • pinitbabypinitbaby member

    Well idk if this is mud or not but if its not then girl, its not the end of the world. BUT you have to be the one to look after those kids. DON'T depend on your mother or anybody else because what it comes down to is YOU having to be there for the rest of those kids' lives. I'm 30 and I need my mom in my life more than I did when I was 12. don't burn that bridge. To be quite frank, and please try not to take this as me bashing you but 3 kids by the time you're 20 is enough girl. Time to talk to your OBGYN about getting tied. I hate to assume but I'm guessing you are low income? It's not going to be easy getting a job, paying for daycare and rent and food and diapers...the list goes on and on. You can see the issues you have caused for yourself, you're also a mom so don't feel sorry for yourself anymore. Time for the big girl panties and to pull ur sh*t together and do things right from now on.

    and if this IS mud..you seriously need to find a hobby other than this for attention.

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