It wasn't supposed to be like this.

GingerCat20

The ER confirmed that there was no heartbeat last might. Today I started bleeding and cramping. We are devastated. 

My mom is also in hospice treatment. I am losing everyone all at once. It wasn't supposed to be like this.  

pottermommy

I am so sorry you are going through so much,  It is hard to deal with so much pain at the same time.

When DD died my mom died 4 months later and I still am amazed that I made it through.

I just recently had my 2nd miscarriage and I know that pain is undescribable and cripling to say the least.  You lost your baby and in that baby were lots of dreams and hopes so they are gone too.

This board is a lovely group of women but unfortunately we have all had very late losses or infant/child losses and they may not be able to fully understand your specific loss if it was early (1st trimester). 

I want you to get the best support possible b/c it is vital in this time.  You may be able to find a better support system more suited to your loss over on the miscarriage/ pregnancy loss page.  The women there are amazing and so incredibly loving.  I know the MOD and she is such a wonderful support.

I hope you find everything you need to help you in this time.  Hugs and lots of prayers to you and your family right now.

GingerCat20

I'm sorry. I Wasn't thinking. I'm losing/ have lost everyone - I saw loss and just posted. I didn't mean to be insensitive and hope it didn't come across that way. Please let me know if I should delete. 

pottermommy

Nope not insensitive at all, I just want you to find the right place for the support you need.

We do understand loss and I know I speak for more than myself when I tell you that I am so sorry and I wish you nothing but the best from here on out!

No need to delete.  I am so so sorry for your loss.

dandywarhol

I am so sorry for you loss. We discovered the same thing out our baby at the ER last night. We were a bit further along than you (16w) but it is still devastating. I hope that you can find some moments of peace and calm.

asglover514

Believe me when I say I can understand your pain. I lost my mom at a young age (12) and it was unbearable. I lost my first LO at 6wks no h/b but didn't bleed or cramp until 12wks. I know it's all hard and to have all that pain at once is unimaginable. The ladies here as well as the m/c board are both wonderful support and I hope you find it helpful. I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. *hugs*

GingerCat20

Thank you all.