Late Term and Child Loss

Intro

I am usually on the Pregnancy loss board but I wanted to introduce myself here. My most recent loss wasn't a late loss (12 weeks). But this most recently loss is bringing up a lot of unresolved issues with when I loss my daughter in 2010 because of Turner Syndrome at 20 weeks and now dealing with the possibilty of infertility.

I am sorry that we have to meet under these condition and I am so sorry for your loss.

5/9/2013 = Our rainbow was born!!

08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)
06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy

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Re: Intro

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    I'm sorry for your losses. What was your daughter's name?

    Please know you're among friends here and you can be yourself. There's no judgment. The women here are very, very supportive and truly amazing!

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  • Thanks so much for the warm welcome. My daughters name is Arianna Big Smile

    5/9/2013 = Our rainbow was born!!

    08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)
    06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
    12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
    01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    My Blog

                      

  • I am so sorry for your losses and that you are facing infertility. This is a terrible heartbreak that no one should have to endure.


      Our Angel Patricia born sleeping 3/30/12 at 31 weeks
    Our Fighter Anna born early 1/8/13 at 26 weeks
    Hoping to bring home #3 due 9/9/15
  • Hi yelizah - I remember you and the story of your precious Arianna from TTCAL.  I'm so sorry for both of your losses.  Welcome to this board - I hope you find comfort here. 
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • I'm so sorry for your losses.
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  • I am sorry for your losses. Arianna is a beautiful name.
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  • I am so very sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. I hope you can find some comfort here.

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  • Im so sorry. You really helped me through my loss of the twins, thank you.
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    imageDesiraeSunshine:
    Im so sorry. You really helped me through my loss of the twins, thank you.

    This made me cry...you are welcome. Thanks for your support.

    5/9/2013 = Our rainbow was born!!

    08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)
    06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
    12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
    01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    My Blog

                      

  • I am so sorry for the loss of Arianna and your most recent baby (as well as the infertility issues).  When we lost our daughter, a couple books that were helpful were Grieving the Child I Never Knew, Empty Cradle Broken Heart and The One Year Book of Hope.   It is also not too late to see a grief counselor.  We lost a co-worker to a car accident last fall and the counselor who did a session at our office talked about how a loss can trigger unresolved (or even mostly resolved) grief over previous losses.  I found that to be true for me and another lady I work with as well.  There is a book called Good Grief by Westberg that helped me not feel crazy as well.

    I am sorry you are here, but we will support you as much as you need.

    Hugs,

    Jenn 

    We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013.  We love her to pieces.  

    We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011.  She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.


  • I'm so sorry for your losses, and the struggles you are going through right now.  We are all here for you, feel free to vent, ask questions, whatever you need.  This board has helped me so much, I hope it will help you as well.
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    BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011 
    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
  • I am so sorry for your losses. Huge hugs and I hope you find some comfort and support on this board as well as the other one.
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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