I am usually on the Pregnancy loss board but I wanted to introduce myself here. My most recent loss wasn't a late loss (12 weeks). But this most recently loss is bringing up a lot of unresolved issues with when I loss my daughter in 2010 because of Turner Syndrome at 20 weeks and now dealing with the possibilty of infertility.
I am sorry that we have to meet under these condition and I am so sorry for your loss.
5/9/2013 = Our rainbow was born!!
08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)
06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy
My Blog
Re: Intro
I'm sorry for your losses. What was your daughter's name?
Please know you're among friends here and you can be yourself. There's no judgment. The women here are very, very supportive and truly amazing!
Thanks so much for the warm welcome. My daughters name is Arianna
5/9/2013 = Our rainbow was born!!
08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)

06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy
My Blog
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
This made me cry...you are welcome. Thanks for your support.
5/9/2013 = Our rainbow was born!!
08/18/2012 - BFP (Hoping this is our rainbow!)

06/24/2012 - Loss confirmed at 12 weeks
12/14/2010 - Loss baby girl at 20 weeks due to Turner Syndrome
01/2009 - Chemical Pregnancy
My Blog
I am so sorry for the loss of Arianna and your most recent baby (as well as the infertility issues). When we lost our daughter, a couple books that were helpful were Grieving the Child I Never Knew, Empty Cradle Broken Heart and The One Year Book of Hope. It is also not too late to see a grief counselor. We lost a co-worker to a car accident last fall and the counselor who did a session at our office talked about how a loss can trigger unresolved (or even mostly resolved) grief over previous losses. I found that to be true for me and another lady I work with as well. There is a book called Good Grief by Westberg that helped me not feel crazy as well.
I am sorry you are here, but we will support you as much as you need.
Hugs,
Jenn
We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013. We love her to pieces.
We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011. She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.