Stalker??? (NBR) Long

abarber2012 · June 2012

Yesterday, while in my office, I get the weirdest phone call. I run an apartment complex by myself, my office is set up in one of the one bedroom apartments. Im alone and people come in and out (walk ins) or call and set appointments to come see apartments. Caller states that he thinks he was here a few weeks ago (I have no idea who he is. People come in and out every day. Some sign in, others dont) and says "are you tall with blonde hair?" I say yes, you must have met with me, as there is no one else here. He then tells me, "ever since that day, I have been fantasizing about you." I was a bit taken back so, instead of just hanging up, I say, "well, Im married & very pregnant." Then, he starts saying more sexual things but, what alarms me the most is that he says hes in the area and can stop by. I hang up the phone, shaking, and lock my front door. I called my husband and my maitenance man and they both come straight to my office. My husband makes me file a police report, I had the guys phone #. I went home early cause I was a little shaken up. But, here I am, back at work. Kinda freaking out that he will show up. What kind of man stalks a pregnant chick???

abarber2012 · June 2012

I came with pepper spray and a pocket knife today! I made a police report and now my husband is checking into security cameras.(we will have to pay for it tho, not my job) I have been here 2 years and never felt scared and now Im scared sh*tless!

mama2many · June 2012

Yuck - I'm so sorry. I've got a 9mm and a leg holster you could wear to work

cindiesheart · June 2012

Its interesting how even in pregnancy a mother goes into protection mode..... I remember never being afraid of anything, and then as soon as I became pregannt with my first, I was instantly on guard, looking over my shoulder, watching for harm. Its crazy the mother instincts that kick in. Well I pray that you are safe, and this guy leaves you alone. What a creep! Sorry you had to go thru that.