So yesterday I had my d&c follow up appt. just shy of two weeks after the surgery. My OB was out on vacation when this happened so another OB in the practice is the one who did it. He didn't do an exam like my other ob does so it was just to talk. So he tells me that he recommends waiting 6 months to ttc again. I asked him why and he tells me that I have just had my uterus scraped out and that I need time to heal and build up the lining and I don't want another m/c. I get that but I don't see why so long. My previous two m/c's my ob always said 2 cycles. So I asked him if this is always his standard waiting period and he said yes. I told him I wasn't waiting the 6 months but ok. We went back and forth on alot of other stuff and I think he is clueless on fertility stuff.
He told me I'm risking having another m/c if I get pregnant quickly. Yeah well none of my m/c were due to inadequate lining. I just felt like he had no sympathy for the fact that I am ama and I don't have all the time in the world to wait. I am all for taking doctor's advice but I think 6 months is excessive. So I pointed out that plenty of women get pg right away and have no problem and he said that women also smoke crack and have healthy babies. At that point I was just upset and wanted to get out of there. He left me feeling like something is definitley wrong with me and I'm stupid to get pg again. Thank god I will never go back to see him again.