So looks like FOB and I are splitting for good. We have 1 DD and another on the way. We had two babies in two years and unfortunetly we did it all wrong (we've only been together two and a half years.) but he cant handle me being pregnant and honestly he has only known me not pregnant maybe 8 monthes since we have been together. We just bought a house together and now im living at my moms till my newest is born. Ive gone through a million emotions of hatred then wanting to beg him to make things better and back and forth. Anyways I told him I didnt want him to be in the hospital when second DD is born and ive remained very stern in that want but everyone seems to think he should be there even though thats more added stress and pain on me. Is it wrong for me to not want him there?